"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ponder this.

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Say for example, that no woman on earth had a gina, or could engage in any kind of sex with you (ie Bill Clinton sex). Under those circumstances, would you enter into any kind of a relationship with a female? Would there be any point? I suppose maybe if she had money.

Let's reverse the roles and ask the same question. Sure women would want a relationship with you as either a provider, a provider with alot of money or simply a guy to take care of them.

My point is that I think most men would not.

Herein lies the power and perceived worth of the gina.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Men go for looks, Women go for personality.

Sex is a part of Human Nature, without it we cannot create life. So, if there was no vagina there would be no need for the penis. Sex would not matter...
 
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5string said:
Say for example, that no woman on earth had a gina, or could engage in any kind of sex with you (ie Bill Clinton sex). Under those circumstances, would you enter into any kind of a relationship with a female? Would there be any point? I suppose maybe if she had money.

Let's reverse the roles and ask the same question. Sure women would want a relationship with you as either a provider, a provider with alot of money or simply a guy to take care of them.

My point is that I think most men would not.

Herein lies the power and perceived worth of the gina.
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So you're saying you'd bang dudes instead?




Sorry....you set me up for that joke. Had to take it.
 
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For all the talk about the power of pvssy around here, the most appealing thing to me about women is their shape. The fullness of her bosom, the slimness of her waist, the curve of her behind, the softness of her legs, the hourglass shape, the flowing hair, the large eyes and small nose and chin...

It seems to me they would still be objects of beauty. It's practically impossible to disconnect that with the promise of intercourse though.

But really, if it's just the act of sex, why would guys always be focused on the next one? Why the need for variety? Guys like the look of the next hot girl.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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For me, my favorite essence of a woman is her youthful aura, soft skin and girlie voice, so I mainly like to just be next to (and massage) a girl who likes me and who talks to me openly. Sex is a by product, so I wouldn't say they would be useless without it. That said, it's not worth marrying for. If you want kids you have to sacrifice your life basically.
 
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Danger said:
Good point.

Most men first have to realize they are losing their self-respect for a vag, before they can learn how to properly game a woman.

If you sacrifice respect for a chance at pu$$y, it's a good indicator you are getting very little and you have yet to fully grasp the game.
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Not understanding this post.
 
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Men need to just stay the hell away from women, until they have enough money to retire on, basically. Then MAYBE the financial drain that ALL women cost you will be tolerable! :) Actually, it's the stupid mistake of having KIDS that ruins everything.
 
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What about the fact that you would have the ability to converse with a girl, and notice that there are actually interesting things about them. Are you saying that guys are the only ones who can be interesting to talk to? Are you gay?
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Last time I checked, I wasn't gay. Iceberg Is kinda hot though!:D
 
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I tell my friends this all the time--if girls didn't have vages, they would be the loneliest creatures on earth. who would want them? i certainly wouldn't. i connect much better with my guy friends who share a lot of the same hobbies, interests, ideas, etc. i would probably date a dude if we all had the same parts.

we don't though, so chasing the mighty gina is what i'm here to do
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Women would have to take care of themselves. Men would never put up with the nonsense women love to engage in so their would be no equal rights. Women would be treated like dogs and left to fend for themselves like feral wild cats. They would degrade into male hating superstitious witches. They would form strange covens and align themselves with their coven to the exclusion of all other women. They would sit around and sew stuff together. There would be rumors of them killing and eating each other in the darkness. Maybe they would have their own island or something, they would have to sterilize the island first so there no "yucky" bugs and stuff. This would give way to new breeds of vampiric creatures and insects forced to survive from period blood off of dirty tampons and such. Cats would run rampant and wild, maybe also giving way to a new breed of cats that eats blood filled roaches born with natural rabies or just b1tchier than normal cats.

Oh and W00t this is my 420 post!
 
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