Poll: would you cheat on your ltr?

[narcissist]

My answer: no I would never cheat.

Experiencing being cheated on and recognizing the personal damage that has been inflicted on myself as a result, I have come to the conclusion that I would never cheat. It's just a sh1tty thing to do to someone else and fvcks with their inner being fundamentally. It's one of my deepest values now.

 

[SteR]

Obviously I want to say I'd never cheat, however I believe anyone can cheat if the conditions are right. I just hope I don't find myself in said situations..

 

[Roober]

Wouldn't intend to cheat, can't say it wouldn't happen though. I would likely cut it off very shortly afterward if I did and not say anything...

 

[9Volt]

No I wouldn't and never have. Serves me no purpose. if things aren't working out and can't be repaired might as well just go our separate ways.

 

[nikkisixx]

they like it and not just because i broke them

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Depends on how good the woman I'm with is. If she is a genuinely sweet person and does what I want, then I wouldn't cheat on her even with the hottest pornstar or actor. If she is just meh, well then I'm just a guy with urges that sometimes I can't control because my needs aren't being met. Not even that I 'can't', it's just that I won't because she probably won't either.

 

[Bible_Belt]

My definition of a good woman, one that I would consider for a LTR, is a woman whose attitude was "if you like any other woman, invite her over, and we'll all have sex together." In a woman's mind, cheating is more about the lies and deception than it is the actual sex act.

 

[Epicwinguy]

Lol I'm the first only person to vote yes?

 

[bigneil]

I once cheated and came home to find my girlfriend waiting in my driveway. Somehow they know. Plus anyone who cares will feel bad after. These days, the mark of your true love is she feels bad when she sleeps with someone else (good luck finding monogamy). There is your first love and your first "I cared when I cheated" love. Don't do it.

 

[AlphaNate]

Yup. I'm not wired for that monogamy ****. I will lie my ass off about it though.

 

[SkrooU]

I cheated many times on many people when I was much younger. I would never do it again. The times I cheated were for different reasons. A few were to take advantage of opportunity. A few were because I was unsure if I wanted to keep my girlfriend and tried someone else. I suspected my wife cheated when I found someone incriminating looking emails. So I revenge cheated.

But i haven't cheated in a long long time. I can be somewhat deceptive when meeting someone new. Meaning if they don't directly ask if im seeing other people or ask for exclusivity then I say nothing and see other people.

 

[Trunks]

Not unless she did it first, and then again I wouldn't cheat. I would straight up tell her I no longer considered ourselves monogamous, take it or leave it.

 

[Infern0]

Id like to think not.

I think its down to being smart snd only getting in an ltr with someone where youd never do that.

Hopefully as DJ's we are past the stage of getting in ltr with girls we arent that into.

Cheating is a very low thing to do, i wouldnt want to be part of that sort of behavioyr