"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Poll: what life would you choose

Which scenerio would you rather live?

  • You make an average income, and you're married faithfully to HB 8.5

    Votes: 21 33.9%
  • You make double the average income, and you're married faithfully to HB 7

    Votes: 41 66.1%

  • Total voters
    62

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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JonJack

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Originally posted by Scought
No, not at all. Love is a fleeting feeling.

Why is the divorce rate slightly higher than 50 percent in the US?

Care to guess about how many love-less marriages that still exist, because those married dont want to split because of Money, kids, and religious convictions? Its astounding.

Those with profound insights on life, know not to get married.

If that is just 'infatuation' than i'd say marriages as they are now in the US are long-term infatuations.

If its 'love' than why would you rather have a hotter girl and less money. If you were in 'love' you wouldnt care her attractivness. Money is something that is important.
Hahahah! So very true it's hilarious.

However, looking at it in a different way, it could be said that love could be more important compared to money only because true love is like 100 times harder to get than money. So if the question was a hypothetical one, in which it is asking if you would prefer true love more than money, then most people would probably choose true love. But in reality, it is easier on one's self to focus their time and energy in making money than in looking for true love. Who the hell wants to be a failure in both respects anyway?
 

I_Only_Live_Once

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hm, so money is winning with 63%..
 

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or u can get the HB10 and be a millionaire
but hey tahts just me
 

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It's official, people pick money in this scenerio. There was a time when I would have picked the girl, now I'm not so sure what I would pick.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The film "Family Man" shows this paradox in true form. Watch that film
 
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