Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sorry, but no.Originally posted by Entity
saying you can't be a virgin and be a DJ is like saying you can't have red hair and be a DJ. A DJ does his own thing above all.
lol!Originally posted by Entity
... A DJ does his own thing above all.
yes it is, but will you pursue a ltr with this woman?Originally posted by Blaaaaat
haha, lighten up man. But serious, I don't see any reason to lose respect for a woman if she would have sex with someone. It's human nature.
The answer to this question is purley relative to the person. If I liked the women that I screwed i'd pursue a LTR. If I didnt like her, I wouldn't pursue a LTR relationship. Having sex with a woman doesn't make her undesirable, she is undesirable in a LTR if I don't think she meets my standards for LTR. Im not one of those guys that feels like I should try to marry every girl I screw.Originally posted by comote
yes it is, but will you pursue a ltr with this woman?
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.