Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Kailex

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HowardHughesDicaprio said:
These are not my "values" you moron, unlike you I actually interact with a lot of people and am aware of stereotypes that go on in American society.
Doubt it.
Oh, and we resort to name calling already? Please.

Doesn't matter if the guy is White or a minority, if you line up all attractive women then blondes will simply be more desired by all (pro athletes, high status guys, etc.).
Alright, find me evidence of all of this. Come on, quote it. Get me some facts, get something to back this claim up. Because I've seen plenty of brunettes and red-heads get the same play.


There is a reason a lot of women who are brunettes dye their hair blonde and not the other way around.
Are you speaking from personal experience?

Sure guys will say "I prefer brunettes" as a defense mechanism or even lie about not liking blondes but all guys want a hot one over other kinds of hot girls.
As a defense mechanism? So anyone who actually like brunettes more, like myself... is doing so because of a defense mechanism? Hilarious. I've never dated a blonde and know plenty of Hispanics who have preferred darker haired women over "blondes". So I guess we all have our defense mechanisms activated in unison.[/quote]

Just because you lack the looks, game, status, and what it takes to get one doesn't change reality. Now STFU, get your denial out of this thread, and do not quote my posts unless you have something worthwhile to say.
You don't know that (looks)
You don't know that (game)
You don't know that (status)
You don't know that (actually about everything you've said).

My denial? Sounds like you are the one in denial, to be honest.

I can quote whatever I want, by the way... public forum.
If you don't like it, there is quite a simple "Ignore" feature you can use. I think even you could figure that out.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I prefer not to use the ignore feature. There are not actually any studies on this but it is a socially accepted norm that is considered widely true except for in your own little fictional world. As for girls dyeing their hair blonde, that is something which has been going on for decades and commonly occurs in American society, most blondes aren't natural.

As for the preference itself, not something statistics can tell the story of, only life experience can. Attractive looking blondes are the most desired women in America and the Western world, even more desired in 3rd world countries where blondes are rare. Have fun living in denial over it because you lack what it takes to actually get one. Whatever it takes to make yourself temporarily feel better.
 

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Personally, my primary considerations are aerodynamics of body composition, symmetry of facial bone structure and ripeness of poontang, over colour of plumage and skin.

Jus sayin.

We're really getting in to semantics now kids.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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