"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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poll: do women really have unlimited options?

do women really have unlimited options

  • yes, women always have men available to them

    Votes: 6 25.0%
  • no, women only have lots of options when they are young (under 30)

    Votes: 6 25.0%
  • no, there are just as many single women as single men out there at any given time

    Votes: 6 25.0%
  • if they are hb9, yes they always do no matter what age

    Votes: 4 16.7%
  • who knows, I can't figure it out

    Votes: 2 8.3%

  • Total voters
    24

joekerr31

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Gents,

interested in hearing thoughts.

if the population is split 50/50. and we hear guys say how they say they aren't getting any action, then does it not stand to reason that there must be a portion of the female population who aren't getting any action either?

Now i know what you're going to say. a small percentage of the guys are getting all the women to themselves. perhaps, although this sounds unlikely. True DJ's are maybe what, 5% of the population at best.

but let me throw in another factor. Is it perhaps the case that yes, almost all women are getting action UP UNTIL A CERTAIN AGE?

I think once a woman hits 30 her suitors tend to drop off the face of the planet drastically.

whats your view on this. I simply find it hard to believe that there are TONS of single guys out there when there aren't TONS of single women. The ratio should be roughly 50/50.

let's take a poll.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Jamo

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lets make an assumption that most ppl (at least on this board) will not go for anyone under a 7, probably higher if they are looking for an LTR. I think that 50% would drop down to 10-15%
 

joekerr31

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this poll is a total wash. everyone has totally different views on the subject.

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legolas

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It would seem like hot women have tons of options and this is the generalized view, but the fact that these women get hit on by losers left and right doesn't necessarily mean that they have tons of options. In fact, women's message boards are loaded with women complaining that all the good men are taken, and all they see is losers. This does not increase their options, but makes it easier for them to pick one to settle with until the right one comes along, if he ever does. Let's face it guys, they have the same problem finding decent men like we have finding decent women.
 
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