"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Levex

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Since there are no political threads allowed anywhere on the site because they usually get out of hand and everyone starts flaming each other(it is the reason isnt it?), why not just make a political "anything else" sub-forum where people can come and b1tch at each other all they want?
It will make mods' lives easier cause they wont have to close numerous threads, members will have a place to discuss politics, and it wont bother anyone who doesnt want to participate.

Just a thought. :cool:
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Levex
members will have a place to discuss politics,
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Members already do have a place to discuss politics and any variation thereof. Another site.
 
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let me offer Abeeda.com
your free to talk politics thier... if you don't infd my site suiting try politics.com ...
 
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What's with this new fad??

Let's make a financial forum!
Let's make a political forum!
Let's make a pimp forum!
Let's make a flame forum!
Let's make an expert forum!

This is a dumb suggestion, there are a lot of forums that deal with politics. It doesn't take a Don Juan to understand politics...
 
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Originally posted by m4a1
What's with this new fad??

Let's make a financial forum!
Let's make a political forum!
Let's make a pimp forum!
Let's make a flame forum!
Let's make an expert forum!

This is a dumb suggestion, there are a lot of forums that deal with politics. It doesn't take a Don Juan to understand politics...
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Let's make a shut the **** up forum just for you.

Diablo: Sure there are other sites,but anything else forum here is full of inane threads. I bet lot of people stop coming to these forums just because nothing worthwhile is going on.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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m4a1

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Keep this on a professional level, not a personal one.

I'll do anything you want if your wish is granted (political forum was made)
In the meantime, your suggestion is stupid, and a political forum will never be made on sosuave.
 
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Politic threads = Lots of views and replies
Lots of views and replies = lots of bandwith req
Lots of bandwith req = Lots of money
Lots of money = No more free forum


We don't want that, now do we?
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
Politic threads = Lots of views and replies
Lots of views and replies = lots of bandwith req
Lots of bandwith req = Lots of money
Lots of money = No more free forum


We don't want that, now do we?
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That makes sense. I forgot that there are no ad banners on this site. Then yeah, it makes no sense to allow political threads cost-wise.

But eventually this site will grow to few dozen thousand members,so it wont be free either way :(
 
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The site, from my understanding, stabelizes and pays for itself through the Book and adds on the front page[they arn't big flashy pop-ups, but in the tips you'll find one every now and then advertising David DeAngelo or someone.]

Just be happy everything is dating related and we don't have those stupid VOTE BUSH and VOTE KERRY.pop-ups.

If you are intrested in politics check out http://fundrace.org/ It tells you who donated in your area or wherever by adress or zipcode... pretty neat.

Anyway I do think this can be locked?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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