"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Political forum?

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Levex

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Since there are no political threads allowed anywhere on the site because they usually get out of hand and everyone starts flaming each other(it is the reason isnt it?), why not just make a political "anything else" sub-forum where people can come and b1tch at each other all they want?
It will make mods' lives easier cause they wont have to close numerous threads, members will have a place to discuss politics, and it wont bother anyone who doesnt want to participate.

Just a thought. :cool:
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Levex
members will have a place to discuss politics,
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Members already do have a place to discuss politics and any variation thereof. Another site.
 
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let me offer Abeeda.com
your free to talk politics thier... if you don't infd my site suiting try politics.com ...
 
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What's with this new fad??

Let's make a financial forum!
Let's make a political forum!
Let's make a pimp forum!
Let's make a flame forum!
Let's make an expert forum!

This is a dumb suggestion, there are a lot of forums that deal with politics. It doesn't take a Don Juan to understand politics...
 
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Originally posted by m4a1
What's with this new fad??

Let's make a financial forum!
Let's make a political forum!
Let's make a pimp forum!
Let's make a flame forum!
Let's make an expert forum!

This is a dumb suggestion, there are a lot of forums that deal with politics. It doesn't take a Don Juan to understand politics...
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Let's make a shut the **** up forum just for you.

Diablo: Sure there are other sites,but anything else forum here is full of inane threads. I bet lot of people stop coming to these forums just because nothing worthwhile is going on.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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m4a1

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Keep this on a professional level, not a personal one.

I'll do anything you want if your wish is granted (political forum was made)
In the meantime, your suggestion is stupid, and a political forum will never be made on sosuave.
 
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Politic threads = Lots of views and replies
Lots of views and replies = lots of bandwith req
Lots of bandwith req = Lots of money
Lots of money = No more free forum


We don't want that, now do we?
 
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Originally posted by Vincent
Politic threads = Lots of views and replies
Lots of views and replies = lots of bandwith req
Lots of bandwith req = Lots of money
Lots of money = No more free forum


We don't want that, now do we?
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That makes sense. I forgot that there are no ad banners on this site. Then yeah, it makes no sense to allow political threads cost-wise.

But eventually this site will grow to few dozen thousand members,so it wont be free either way :(
 
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The site, from my understanding, stabelizes and pays for itself through the Book and adds on the front page[they arn't big flashy pop-ups, but in the tips you'll find one every now and then advertising David DeAngelo or someone.]

Just be happy everything is dating related and we don't have those stupid VOTE BUSH and VOTE KERRY.pop-ups.

If you are intrested in politics check out http://fundrace.org/ It tells you who donated in your area or wherever by adress or zipcode... pretty neat.

Anyway I do think this can be locked?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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