politely friendzoned/rejected

[big weezy]

The girl I was meeting today for a study session coffee, well I didn't actually say coffee I sat next to but she was studying for an exam. I brought my books but wasn't in the mood to study so I pretended to. She'd talk to me in between writing her notes but I was tryna escalate by kino'ing but I think she wsnt receptive and I was already friendzoned from before. She said she had to go to the bank and I suggested wego together as she needed to go to a specific branch. She seemed receptive to it at 1st but I think it came across needy, I made suggestions tha we'd cme back to the cafe to study afterwards. Conveniently her friend msg'd her that she'd drive her there and shemight come bck to the cafe to study later. I said I'd still be here till 7 but I knew she prob wasn't going to come back and thiswas a ploy to get away from me. Should I assume this? I feel friendzoned and dnt wanna waste my time as 1 of her maleorbiters. I'm irritated that I spent timesitting nxt to her when I could have game the other HBs in the

 

[big weezy]

Cafe, which just my luck was full of them but when I normally come in here to game there's none. That's frustrating as hell, I contemplated using her as social proofing to then go approach but 1 left already and the other 2-3 were in groups of 2. I feel I've wasted my time. I'm not gona bother meeting her anymore if she's not interested but it does hurt my chances of gaming in here esp if she's always in here. Friendzone. Is a b1tch, she invited me round to watch a dvd with her on the day I met her but I did not see the text or made the suggestion till it was already too late. It doesn't mean she was looking to fvck but I could have turned it into that given my past record of escalating during watching a dvd isolated with a girl.

 

[OMGWTFLMAO]

She was probably annoyed with you for preventing her from studying. Timing is very important. If someone is busy studying, working or doing something that requires their full attention, having someone do what you were doing tends to be very irritating. You may not be in the "friendzone" with her yet, but if you make a habit of being a nuisance to girls when they are busy studying (probably for finals, too!) you are likely to end up getting a reputation for being annoying and someone to avoid. You don't ever want to be seen in that way.

 

[vatoloco]

It's usually a bad idea to hit on girls when they're studying. Especially around this time when college finals are going on...

 

[Joe Stud]

go low contact... become scarce & indifferent

 

[Lexington]

Unless you're 12 years old, "study date" really means study date. If a girl is trying to get work done, it's not the best time to try and escalate with her.