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polishing a diamond in the rough

pornstar88

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have you guys ever polished a diamond in the rough? I mean take a girl that could look good if she knew how to dress and do her hair . I know this is possible because most popular females dont look very good in the face or with thier body. THey just know how to do thier hair and dress. But thier are some bomb girls that dont care to do that so thus they arent popular or girlfriend material. And they are overlooked. However I wanna start from scratch with a gurl that has mad potential and I wanna build her up but I dont know how i should do it. Should I buy her clothes and should i be brutally honest about how i want her to look I just am not sure how I should do it any tips.
 

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This sounds like too much work. The guy shouldn't be the one to worry about hair or clothes.
 

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If you have a very close female friend that has style, then you're golden. If not, you're screwed and should give up all hope.

Basically get your female friend to take your girl out as a little "Guy Free Day" type of thing. Tell your female friend to take her to a mall. Walk in some stores that she likes and pick out some outfits that she thinks your girl would look good in. Have her try them on, then tell her she should buy them.

Someother time, have your friend call your girl up for another "Guy Free Day" at the day spa. hands, toes, facials, and hair.

Now the problem with this is, you're not gonna be spending money on your girl, so you won't come across as a sugar daddy, but ya female friend is gonna want some reimbursment for what she's doing for you.
 

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You can tell her you love to play dress up, you do can do each other's hair and makeup and try different outfits. Then spend half the time giggling at the mirror on how sexy you guys look.
 

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Ditch the unstylish chick and find yourself a chick who satisfies what you're looking for... stylish and whatever else is important... I'm not trying to be a reality TV makeover show, ya know?
 

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If your willing to go through the trouble.... whatever...Plus, the way a woman looks reflects how she sees herself and her general outlook on things, most times. You want someone who cares about how they present themselves to others. Not a slacker.
 

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i dont know where you guys are from but over here the most mentally damged chicks are the ones on top. They are the high mantenence, low self esteem, bullemic chicks. The girls that im talkn about are the types of girls that dont neccessary have the money or the will to buy an outfit once a week. To me that says mad confidence when you dont follow the crowd, that takes guts. Thats normally what they do, they normally just wear what they like and not care much about what everyone else is doing. I respect that.
 

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i dont know where you guys are from but over here the most mentally damged chicks are the ones on top. They are the high mantenence, low self esteem, bullemic chicks. The girls that im talkn about are the types of girls that dont neccessary have the money or the will to buy an outfit once a week. To me that says mad confidence when you dont follow the crowd, that takes guts. Thats normally what they do, they normally just wear what they like and not care much about what everyone else is doing. I respect that.
 

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Know what takes guts? Stealing

Just because a chick is a slob doesn't mean she's "unique" or "against the grain" it just means she doesnt have any damn will power. Who wants that? That's like loving a fat girl for her being "oh so smart"

You want a "unique" girl? Date a rocker chick or an Indie girl.
There's some "not following the crowd" without being fackin digusting.
 

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And after you've gotten her to dress better, maybe you can teacher her to say 'The rain in Spain falls mainly on the plain'.
 

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Those girls are the real keepers. When your an attractive, confident, suave guy and you pick up an underconfident sweetheart, shes yours. Ive seen it over and over, you can get the popular overly confident slut, and have a superficial relationship with her where eventually she cheats on you. OR, you can find a diamon like this, and you'll be her superhero.
I have always felt a big part of game was not just the ability to bang women, but to make them still worship you after you have had them around for a while. These ones are perfect for that.
 

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go shopping with her. say u want cloth while u r really looking 4 cloth 4 her.
One tip of advice, make sure you dont polish your diamond too much, otherwise they will attract unwanted competition, make sure that she is yours before you start polishing.
 
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