"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Polish girl gone weird...

P

PectoralisMajor

Senior Don Juan
Joined
Feb 18, 2007
Messages
328
Reaction score
4
Met her in a coffee shop - I get on well with the staff. Always having a laugh.

After gettin the number, I didnt call for over a week - i'm a busy guy with work and socialising. Leave her a voicemail to call back when she gets a spare minute.

SO in the shop today she appears out of nowhere next to me, and says some sh1t about how 'circumstances have changed' and she shouldnt have given out her number. I was like 'whatever' attitude and brushed it off. She looked awkward. I told her I had a girlfriend and I thought as we worked next door it might have been fun to hang out, did she fancy it.

'No' she says, and starts walking away - i jokingly say ' you smell' grabbed my coffee and left.

Basically - I rekon she made a fool out of herself by making it

a) such a big deal
b) I have a girlfriend anyway ( bet she didnt see that coming eh..)
c) my attitude was that I couldnt care less

I've no idea what changed during that week, women eh!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

Read more...

S

Stuntmann

Banned
Joined
Aug 25, 2007
Messages
326
Reaction score
0
Location
MIA
She is used to her booty being kissed by all men, and here you are so different. She just has to have you kissing her booty.


Good job there.


Enjoy picking up other women while you enjoy your coffee in plain sight.
 
M

Monkey

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 4, 2001
Messages
1,131
Reaction score
1
Location
Planet of the Apes
A simple 'no problem' would have been enough.

The gf comment and 'you smell' was not needed and made you sound like the fool, not her.

This girl didn't owe you anything, she could have never got back to you (like most women) but infact she came over and explained that she no longer had interest in you (in w0manese of course but she still said it) - thats something to respect.
 
S

Stuntmann

Banned
Joined
Aug 25, 2007
Messages
326
Reaction score
0
Location
MIA
I believe she came over to tell him not that she's no longer interested, but that's she was dying to hear from him, but he took too long, and now she's a bit offended. She did what she knows best to get his interest up.
 
M

Mike95YJ

Don Juan
Joined
Nov 4, 2003
Messages
30
Reaction score
0
Location
CT
stay away man....polish *****es are crazy...but then again..what women arent?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top