You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
I can see you don't understand the full story...the guy was being handcuffed for "obstructing justice" because he walked with his dog on a "long leash" according to police, and was recording them.Danger said:The guy was blasting music during a dangerous standoff situation. He was much closer to the police cars and such than he needed to be.
He was being a purposeful nuisance, and it's a shame that the dog had to pay the price. His actions are of the guy that keeps pushing the limit until he finally gets punished, only for him to turn around and claim victim status.
One only needs to watch the video to note the armored carrier and all of the others videotaping who did not get handcuffed.
You're an idiot.Jaylan said:^Actually you dont understand the full story OP.
First let me say that I feel very sorry for the dog, that I dont fault the police, and that the owner is an idiot.
First he blasts music in a crime scene and doesnt act too cooperative when asked to lower it. Then he decides its a good idea to walk his big rottweiler near police cruisers while video taping them. Why in the world did the dog need to leave the car?
Clearly something serious is going on that the police are handling, but that fool thought itd be wise to bring his big dog out and then agitate the police further by taping them. The guy then doesnt secure his car in the vehicle before getting arrested and it makes a lunge towards him and the officers.
I cant blame the police on this one.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
This does not really directly address the story at all.backseatjuan said:Yay! In 2009 I had an incident with police. Basically, when you encounter them you realize you're trash. You're guilty if you encounter them. Long story short, in summer 2010 sick of American feminism, I moved to Russia.
Fast forward two years, Gerard Depardieu followed the trend I set, of which I am very proud!
Here police do not mess with people or dogs.
I've ran from police on a car chase while drunk, they got us, threw us on the ground, beat us up a little. The next day I was driving again, $500 solved the problem. Man, in USA I'd get a life sentence and probably get shot or something.
Do a simple YouTube search of "police innocent", you'll find plenty of videos that show off how great cops are. This specific example is just one that pisses off animal rights activists instead of human rights activists.Jaylan said:This does not really directly address the story at all.
It just shows us that you can pay a fine in Russia after drunk driving, and then be let back on the streets and behind the wheel again to potentially kill yourself or someone else.
In the US youd rightfully have points and a revocation of your license for driving drunks and evading arrest on top of that. However, from what Ive read online, it seems Russia doesnt allow any alcohol in the body if you are to drive. So Im thinking those cops or someone else didnt follow protocol.
Either way, your post had the opposite effect than what you intended. Instead of highlighting overzealous USA cops, it highlights overly lax Russian cops who let a serious crime go without much punishment. I hope you dont still drink and drive. Its beyond me why people even try that.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
In USA, I assume they are not allowed, although I don't know for sure.Mike32ct said:1. Cops aren't allowed to fire warning shots to scare people or animals. Warning shots put others in danger.
I really don't know a single case where police shot an animal in Russia. It would outrage the people. I do know cases where police come to a call, and there was dog in the house, so they leave, as to not cause trouble.Mike32ct said:2. Once the animal attacks and, for example, latches onto someone's leg and starts thrashing around, how are you supposed to shoot it without endangering the victim?
He reached for the collar and the dog went for his hand. He reacted and shot it.BPH said:There were so many alternatives to shooting that dog.
Still doesn't explain why none of those dumbasses had the common sense to use a taser.Purefilth said:He reached for the collar and the dog went for his hand. He reacted and shot it.
Put yourself in his position - rottweiler = you'd be damn cautious too, if not you're a bloody fool.
Owners fault. End of.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Give a man the option between pulling a gun and pulling a tazer?BPH said:Still doesn't explain why none of those dumbasses had the common sense to use a taser.