"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Pointing Question!?!??!

Reyaj

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Hey whats up DJ's...

I am going to start learning Speed Seduction soon, but for the past months, I have been learning about the theory of it, and it does sound like it can be feasible. However there is 1 thing right away that I question, and that is with the self pointing.

I mean when you are running through a pattern, and you have to point to your penis, I mean won't this look obviously weird? Maybe I am imagining the wrong kind of pointing, but I can't really think of a subtle way to do it.

If any of you can shine some light on this, please do, thanks...
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Jayer

I mean when you are running through a pattern, and you have to point to your penis, I mean won't this look obviously weird? Maybe I am imagining the wrong kind of pointing, but I can't really think of a subtle way to do it.

If any of you can shine some light on this, please do, thanks...
try this: Put your thumb in your belt loop and have your index finger point so that it looks natural.
 

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good idea viriod.
 

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bump

talk with your hands, touch her(anchoring), move around, like if you are standing you can "point" by moving your hips slightly and dropping your hands down, or putting one in your pocket.

and other kinds of pointing is just done with slight movements that direct her attention towards you, or a specific part.
 

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Can you use patterns like this:

"You know, when I'm with you, i feel that I am
very happy and delighted, cause i Feel your presence right here, and right now. I enjoy every moment being with you. BLA BLA BLA Can you understand what I am saying? "

It is so obvious, but you are not suposed to try this in early phases of relationship.

What do you think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Duasun

"You know, when I'm with you, i feel that I am
very happy and delighted, cause i Feel your presence right here, and right now...
*chick freaks out*

unless you have a VERY serious relationship with her, and are about to ask her to marry you, or something.


hehe, the very essence of seduction is to get HER feeling things, talking about how you feel is what her girl friends are for.


You want to stay away from talking about yourself and how you feel, chicks can smell BS a mile away, remember patterns are SUBTLE, they allow her mind to wander off the "subject" but focus on the main idea you are trying to convey.


ie. with the rollercoaster pattern that Ross Jeffries uses, he is talking about the incredible rush of excitement you get from riding a roller coaster, while her mind wonders to the incredible rush of excitement from riding your prick.

If you start talking about the actual feeling, then her mind isnt "wandering" and creating "its own" ideas, but its like you are shoving ideas into her. She is MUCH more likely to reject YOUR idea, then she would "her" idea.

(since she herself came up with the idea of linking roller coaster to penis, she is much more likely to trust herself)

Read some other threads about just theory of NLP, and how specifically it works, before you actually learn techniques and stuff.
 
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