Pointing out a chicks flaws...bad?

[montybrown]

Theres this HB8 that I'm talking to and I don't want to compliment her on anything because face it, 8 other guys probably already did the same. I noticed though that she bites her nails all the way to the skin. I wanted to make some C&F comment about it but I didn't. What do you think I should do? Either Bring it up and she will feel like she has more flaws and look at me as the prize... or she could basically just think I'm a rude SOB and won't ever care to go out with me.

 

[DogFashionDisco]

You: "yeah, so you bite your finger nails alot... that's pretty disgusting"
Her:




Honestly.

 

[montybrown]

LOL I want to say it.

I guess I'm just looking at the worst case scenario, but I am just trying to understand how even bringing that up will do me more good than it could do me more bad which is what is holding me back.

 

[skirtChaser]

I noticed all girls that bite nails suck great ****!.......actually biting nails is a filthy habit, you can pick up all kinds of stuff from that. take her to the library and as your walking in say " could be a lot of germs in here, I don't recommend biting your nails", maybe she will pick up the clue. also don't think it is a wise idea to let her suck your hog after biting her nails.

 

[Maxtro]

Pointing out her flaws as long as they aren't anything really major is a great way to tease her as long as you can say it in good fun.

 

[smooth guy]

Pointing out her flaws as long as they aren't anything really major is a great way to tease her as long as you can say it in good fun.

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after some pretty awkward moments when pointing out some flaws now I'm really careful.

 

[Nouse4one]

Yep

DO IT! Take it a step farther like " do you bite your toe nails too? ewww yuck!" run with it be rediculus "Do you sniff your feet too?lol, i better not ever catch you trying to sniff my feet." the trick is to make up stuff and tease her with it. If she puches you in the shoulder or laughes your golden.

If she punches you in the face and sneers you may want to re-evaluate and change your approach a bit.

 

[MR_PERFECT]

I noticed though that she bites her nails all the way to the skin.

How is she an 8 if she bites her nails to the skin? Can you imagine those hands touching your... I think I'm going to be sick.

 

[kdnash82]

Some people can be really self conscience about certain things. She could be really sensitive to the fact that she bites her nails. I wouldn't play around with that one.

With that said, that doesn't mean that she is immune to getting joked on every now and then. I would do it with something else that's not so serious, but it has to be something funny and not so obvious that you're point out flaws.

If she dyes her hair blonde and you can see her roots are more brown, I would say something like...

Me: I like your hair. I think it's pretty cool that you put brown highlights in your hair.
Her: I don't dye my hair brown. That's my natural hair color.
Me: Oh... ummm.. ok then...

It's a give and take. Compliment her and take it back instantly. It makes her more self conscience about herself and breaks her down. This is only to be done with chicks who think they are extremely hot. You shouldn't do this with an average chick. She probably already has issues with herself. It also shouldn't be done to the extreme or too often. You will end up coming across as an azzhole.

 

[WaterTiger]

How about: You know, biting your nails is a sign of sexual frustration. I can help you get over that!

 

[Bible_Belt]

Ask her what she's nervous about.