"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Pof Will Respond Feature Revealed

COD

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Plenty of Fish has a recent feature called WILL RESPOND...........how do they know which users are most likely to resond and how do those users get put on that list?

POF uses metrics counters/recorders-they flag emails for key word & content, the have internal email counters to keep track of how many emails people send per day (I think the limit is 30) they limit the number of exact cut n paste emails a user can send (blocked after 3), they record how long it takes you to click to the next profile, time you logg on to the time you log off, how fast you respond, time of day you respond, etc.

IVESTIGATION BEGAN- first I took a look at my matches, next, I looked at will respond matches, then I looked at NO EMAILS matches. Compared them for similarities.

THE RESULTS-the users who are selected for WILL RESPOND are mostly;

1) ONLINE NOW status.......and I agree with this since I revealed the best time to contact someone is WHILE THEY ARE ONLINE, ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO.

2) IN YOUR AGE GROUP-very similar to your matches.

3) PROXIMATY-distance from you.

4) PREFERENCES-similarities, things in common like (must have picture, not looking fo intimate encounter, where you reside, height, race,kids, etc)

4) THEIR HISTORY-emails they received vs emails they responded to. If they have responded before, they are more likely to initiate a response.

5) NUMBER OF EMAILS RECEIVED-stands to reason that if a chic got a1000 emails she wont be able to respond to everyone as opposed to someone who got a few emails where they may have time to respond to all emails.

6) PERSONALITY-certain types are more serious than others and feel obligated to respond.

Now thats how POF claims which users will respond...........IN REALITY it comes down to a few other things

-timing: when u email them
-WHAT YOUR SUBJECT LINE SAYS
-HOW ENTICING YOUR EMAIL IS
-YOUR PICTURE
-YOUR PROFILE
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Capodeciña

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You know what really p!sses me off with online dating or anything to do with ONLINE gaming.

is the fact of validation - I had this slvt in my palms, after a few messages, got her e-mail (didnt bother asking for the number) ONLINE. Got talking 20 minutes building up some comfort, I did everything, and not coming off as the average joe, asked for her number, she declined and said some bullshyt I cannot remember. So she blocked me for being to stubborn and being a "player"

So, even if people are still blocked, you can still see their activity right, theres a guy she was speaking to who sent her a note, calling her "girlfriend" and they traded sexual inuendos, most AFC comments ever, yet I was OVERLOOKED? because I wouldn't call her beautiful and all the AFC statements under the sun. What most guys here will say is, good thing you didn't invest in here then, but how many times are you going to say that?

Sometimes I wish I hadn't changed from being an average joe and found this site, I feel as if it has some what, tarnished me. Why the effort, when AFC'S can trod along and get through with these common ways. I agree with time and effort, but this shyt is getting BORING, TIRESOME and CONTINIOUS to the point of where I believe all women suffer with some form NPD. I'm really at the edge of a bridge here and cannot wait to put the holy hammer of god down on these qualifying retarded boring species.
 

ThunderMaverick

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Great googly moogly. This post got me to sign up with P.O.F. I'm already not liking the results.
 
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