"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Pof Will Respond Feature Revealed

COD

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Plenty of Fish has a recent feature called WILL RESPOND...........how do they know which users are most likely to resond and how do those users get put on that list?

POF uses metrics counters/recorders-they flag emails for key word & content, the have internal email counters to keep track of how many emails people send per day (I think the limit is 30) they limit the number of exact cut n paste emails a user can send (blocked after 3), they record how long it takes you to click to the next profile, time you logg on to the time you log off, how fast you respond, time of day you respond, etc.

IVESTIGATION BEGAN- first I took a look at my matches, next, I looked at will respond matches, then I looked at NO EMAILS matches. Compared them for similarities.

THE RESULTS-the users who are selected for WILL RESPOND are mostly;

1) ONLINE NOW status.......and I agree with this since I revealed the best time to contact someone is WHILE THEY ARE ONLINE, ABOUT 2 YEARS AGO.

2) IN YOUR AGE GROUP-very similar to your matches.

3) PROXIMATY-distance from you.

4) PREFERENCES-similarities, things in common like (must have picture, not looking fo intimate encounter, where you reside, height, race,kids, etc)

4) THEIR HISTORY-emails they received vs emails they responded to. If they have responded before, they are more likely to initiate a response.

5) NUMBER OF EMAILS RECEIVED-stands to reason that if a chic got a1000 emails she wont be able to respond to everyone as opposed to someone who got a few emails where they may have time to respond to all emails.

6) PERSONALITY-certain types are more serious than others and feel obligated to respond.

Now thats how POF claims which users will respond...........IN REALITY it comes down to a few other things

-timing: when u email them
-WHAT YOUR SUBJECT LINE SAYS
-HOW ENTICING YOUR EMAIL IS
-YOUR PICTURE
-YOUR PROFILE
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You know what really p!sses me off with online dating or anything to do with ONLINE gaming.

is the fact of validation - I had this slvt in my palms, after a few messages, got her e-mail (didnt bother asking for the number) ONLINE. Got talking 20 minutes building up some comfort, I did everything, and not coming off as the average joe, asked for her number, she declined and said some bullshyt I cannot remember. So she blocked me for being to stubborn and being a "player"

So, even if people are still blocked, you can still see their activity right, theres a guy she was speaking to who sent her a note, calling her "girlfriend" and they traded sexual inuendos, most AFC comments ever, yet I was OVERLOOKED? because I wouldn't call her beautiful and all the AFC statements under the sun. What most guys here will say is, good thing you didn't invest in here then, but how many times are you going to say that?

Sometimes I wish I hadn't changed from being an average joe and found this site, I feel as if it has some what, tarnished me. Why the effort, when AFC'S can trod along and get through with these common ways. I agree with time and effort, but this shyt is getting BORING, TIRESOME and CONTINIOUS to the point of where I believe all women suffer with some form NPD. I'm really at the edge of a bridge here and cannot wait to put the holy hammer of god down on these qualifying retarded boring species.
 

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Great googly moogly. This post got me to sign up with P.O.F. I'm already not liking the results.
 
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