"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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POF: why do i bother.

the_stig

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One more tip about exercise:

A few of my friends have tried p90x, swearing up and down that they will stick with a routine. All three lost interest within two weeks.

The secret to fitness is finding an exercise that you truly enjoy doing. What got me back into shape was cycling. I went from casual riding from my house around the local park system, to time trials, racing and 100 mile bike rallies. That was in 2004 and I still enjoy it more than ever. A few years ago I started running, merely to try and alleviate the fitness plateau I was facing from cycling. Now I'm training for multiple marathons this summer.

The point is, I wouldn't have stuck with running and cycling all these years if I didn't truly enjoy them. For you, it might be roller blading, cross country skiing, yoga, whatever. Figure out what your passion is with exercising, don't just dive into some fitness program only to be let down.

Exercise alone won't cut it. Diet is equally important. I didn't simply give up all the foods I love, but moderation was essential. Do I still splurge once a week with pizza and ice cream when a new episode of Top Gear comes out? You bet your azz I do. There are LOTS of good foods out there that taste wonderful but don't make you fat. Experiment around and find what you like. If you want results, that's what you'll have to do. I eat around 2000-2200 calories a day to maintain 150lbs, and you'd be surprised at how little food that is.

Wish I had time to write more, but this is the abbreviated story of how I got fit and what it takes. It's not as daunting as it sounds, it's a life style change completely, but once the old habits are broken, you don't look back,
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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englishman

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I dunno about plenty of fish. I once made up a profile when I was drunk. I went to pictures of ugly people .com cut and pasted a pic of a guy with no teeth or shirt and called my profile "I LIKE CHEESE AND ACDC'' Then I just listed cheeses that I liked, edam, cheshire, stilton, bree.
I got a reply from a women that was really into the Cheese Man hahaha

I didn't get one for my real profile though! Fvck POF it's bollocks.
Here's the profile

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=868416
 
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