“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Hi everyone..I have only joined this site today, after lurking on and off for a long time...so i know the lay of the land here, so to speak. Anyhow I have an interesting POF profile I want to discuss.

I really do not like online dating and sites like POF, for dozens of reasons, time wasters, fake profiles women put up with fake pictures etc...but last month I finally gave in, as my game in the bars/clubs is just not happening these days...maybe Im getting too old or just going the wrong places I dunno.
So I tried POF...
Anyhow After joining I got banned at least 3 times for using sexual language..I mean its such a damned double standard, some of the women put up pictures flaunting everything but if you comment on it...your finished...anyhow there are a couple of ways of circumventing the ip ban..so I did that and go back on..

Now I have an almost blank profile, because i live in a samll town and I have already seen a few women I recognize from around town on this POF cr4p..So I am super cautious about putting my own mug shot up..obviously...

So basically im looking around to see who is available and hot etc...when i see this really hot girl..in my opinion, obviously...and Im thinking is this real?... do really hot chicks really go on POF?...surely they get hit on all day long as it is...so i do a reverse image search on all her photos and cant find them anywhere online..all but one...which turns up on fling.c0m. And the page that comes up says this chick is into threesomes...Now Im thinking this must be fake.

Now I cant access the whole profile on fling, as you have to pay etc... but its definatley the same chick..but she is based in a the US...but the pof file does state she used to live in that country...Plus on her other POF picks she has pictured herself in the town i live..so I know for sure she is real and has atleast been here.

Also on her pof page she lists her job as a specialist one, something you would need to be a real braniac to do..also something you would never guess some hottie like this does...and i was really sure this was a fake profile...so i did some checking on facebook...and on google and i found some funky stuff.

It turns out there is "0NE" girl fitting this woman's profile..but she only puts up a really blurred photo on her facebook profile, the rest of her profile is locked so I cant see her friends list or photos ...so i cant tell for sure if its her..but she looks roughly the same...and even weirder there is another facebook profile that is almost certainly the same girl..but this one, she has a baby photo up from years ago and the two names on both profiles are swapped around, so the surnames are used as first names and vice versa..It looks like one profile is for her family and the other for friends......and whats weirder is the two profiles are linked by a specialist facebook page on this woman's supposed job.

So its all very wierd...but Im almost 100% this chick is real..remeber she has photos of herself in the town i live....so i did a search on the name I came up with...and low and behold I can find a girl who matches everything but still no photos, the few profile pictures she has on sites are blurred out or show her feet or whatever..there is a twitter account..which she has never tweeted from..etc..

Further more...her linked in profile...her previous jobs have her name on their web page..but the profile is blank...leading me to think she got sacked...or some shi7 happened...also her former collegues do not list her on their facebook pages...but they did all work in the same place...spooky or what????

Its like this woman exists but has done something to have to run from..because according to everything ive found she only recently came to this town...she has a history but its almost deleted...its really weird ..and the two facebook profiles...

She clearly does not want her POF and fling profiles to be matched with her career...as all her career photos are either blurred out of are blank spaces...
Yet she posts her steamy pics on POF etc..which anyone can see...

So I have a few hunches so far...
High class call girl? But why would she even bother spending years in college and university if she does that??? I have confirmed she did spend years in school.
SPY? I know it sounds far fetched but seriously thats what im thinking...who else would leave so few traces online??? especially a women these days they usually make sure they leave a massive data trail...

Also I have taken the info I have gathered on this chick and redone my profile to make is more attractive to her...Ive messaged her and am awaiting a response...


Sorry I cant be more specific on this girl; or post her pics but if I did id be taking the risk that someone would message her and blow my plan to meet her...
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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sociopath said:
Hi everyone..I have only joined this site today, after lurking on and off for a long time...so i know the lay of the land here, so to speak. Anyhow I have an interesting POF profile I want to discuss.

I really do not like online dating and sites like POF, for dozens of reasons, time wasters, fake profiles women put up with fake pictures etc...but last month I finally gave in, as my game in the bars/clubs is just not happening these days...maybe Im getting too old or just going the wrong places I dunno.
So I tried POF...
Anyhow After joining I got banned at least 3 times for using sexual language..I mean its such a damned double standard, some of the women put up pictures flaunting everything but if you comment on it...your finished...anyhow there are a couple of ways of circumventing the ip ban..so I did that and go back on..

Now I have an almost blank profile, because i live in a samll town and I have already seen a few women I recognize from around town on this POF cr4p..So I am super cautious about putting my own mug shot up..obviously...

So basically im looking around to see who is available and hot etc...when i see this really hot girl..in my opinion, obviously...and Im thinking is this real?... do really hot chicks really go on POF?...surely they get hit on all day long as it is...so i do a reverse image search on all her photos and cant find them anywhere online..all but one...which turns up on fling.c0m. And the page that comes up says this chick is into threesomes...Now Im thinking this must be fake.

Now I cant access the whole profile on fling but its definatley the same chick..but she is based in a the US...but the pof file does state she used to live in that country...Plus on here pother POF picks she has pictured herself in the town i live..so I know for sure she is real and has atleast been here.

Also on her pof page she lists her job as a specialist one, something you would need to be a real braniac to do...and i was really sure this was a fake profile...so i did some checking on facebook...and on google and i found some funky stuff.

It turns out there is "0NE" girl fitting this woman's profile..but she only puts up a really blurred photo on her profile, the rest of her profile is locked so I cant see her friends list or photos ...so i cant tell for sure if its her..but she looks roughly the same...and even weirder there is another facebook profile that is almost certainly the same girl..but this one, she has a baby photo up from years ago and the two names on both profiles are swapped around, so the surnames are used as first names and vice versa..It looks like one profile is for her family and the other for friends......and whats weirder is the two profiles are linked by a specialist facebook page on this woman's supposed job.

So its all very wierd...but Im almost 100% this chick is real..so i did a search on the name I came up with...and low and behold I can find a girl who matches everything but still no photos, the few profile pictures she has on sites are blurred out or show her feet or whatever..there is a twitter account..which she has never tweeted from..etc..

Further more...her linked in profile...her previous jobs have her name on their web page..but the profile is blank...leading me to think she got sacked.

Its like this woman exists but has done something to have to run from...she has a history but its almost deleted...its really weird ..and the two facebook profiles...

She clearly does not want her POF and fling profiles to be matched with her career...as all her career photos are either blurred out of are blank spaces...
Yet she posts her steamy pics on POF etc..which anyone can see...

So I have a few hunches so far...
High class call girl? But why would she even bother spending years in college and university if she does that???
SPY? I know it sounds far fetched but seriously thats what im thinking.

Also I have taken the info I have gathered on this chick and redone my profile to make is more attractive to her...Ive messaged her and am awaiting a response...


Sorry I cant be more specific on this girl; or post her pics but if I did id be taking the risk that someone would message her and blow my plan to meet her...
I guess my question would be nothing about her, but about you. Why do you care so much about a girl you have never met to go through all of this trouble? To analyze in such detail where she may have worked, whether her pics are real, if she has been on other dating websites, to change your profile in hopes it might attract her specifically to you....again, all for a girl who does not even know you are alive?

That is way over the top and is the first step to becoming a stalker, or worse. There are millions of girls out there and you are fixated on this one? Does not compute.

I would take a good hard look at why you engage in this type of behavior and do whatever you can to stop doing it.
 

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I guess my question would be nothing about her, but about you. Why do you care so much about a girl you have never met to go through all of this trouble? To analyze in such detail where she may have worked, whether her pics are real, if she has been on other dating websites, to change your profile in hopes it might attract her specifically to you....again, all for a girl who does not even know you are alive?

That is way over the top and is the first step to becoming a stalker, or worse. There are millions of girls out there and you are fixated on this one? Does not compute.

I would take a good hard look at why you engage in this type of behavior and do whatever you can to stop doing it.
I told you i was a sociopath didnt I...
For what its worth....and to justify myself...ill explain...

Im sure anyone who has been on POF past a few days realises there are tons of fake profiles...So before investing time in anyone it is only logical to try to identify if this person is real..or if they are a mutant or some gay dude...OK

usually a reverse image search will pull something up..like a supermodel i never heard of...or someones facebook page etc...but whatever the case you can often find a fake from a real person..so atleats you know who your probably messaging...fair enough?

What happened was that whit this profile I found someone who has made it very difficult to find anything about them...and I just realized there was something much stranger going on...so I got interested to dig up more...I honestly think this woman is a spy...Im not going to name the country i think she spies for...but its looking like a spy. Who wouldn't be interested in a real life hot as hell..spy?

Also i may be way off but isnt the art of picking up women..telling them whatever is required in order to obtain them...duh....Of course ive used some of the things she is into to make my profile more appealing...i would do that to any woman im interested in...its called seduction.

as far as stalking...nope...I haven't got the energy. Plus stalkers sculk around bothering people for weeks or years...this has been an hours detective work...thats all... ..right now im just trying to get to meet this woman...if I dont get to meet her in the next few days im not pursuing it any further...and if I do get to meet her...Ill try to b4ng within a couple of dates...thats it. if I get no response from my POF text within 24 hours im done anyhow...Sound like a staler now?
 

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Yes, an insane stalker. :)

A spy? Really?
HAHA an insane stalker OK...fine..like I said an hours worth of internet.... Im guessing you have a reputation on here already for spitting at guys from behind your screen.. and probably get enough names thrown back your way brother...keep spitting, your just hitting your monitor.
 

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are you planning on raping her in a dark alley? Whats with the creepy obsession with a profile?
 

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HAHA an insane stalker OK...fine..like I said an hours worth of internet.... Im guessing you have a reputation on here already for spitting at guys from behind your screen.. and probably get enough names thrown back your way brother...keep spitting, your just hitting your monitor.

This is what you wrote....I really do not like online dating and sites like POF, for dozens of reasons, time wasters, fake profiles women put up with fake pictures etc...but last month I finally gave in, as my game in the bars/clubs is just not happening these days...maybe Im getting too old or just going the wrong places I dunno.

On top of that you called yourself a sociopath.

And you wonder why you are posting on a website primarily devoted to getting better with women?

A person's behavior and personality is not different in different parts of one's life. You are who you are and that generally transcends throughout all aspects of your existence. So you exhibiting these signs of extremely addictive and OCD-leading to stalkerish behavior, in regards to this girl is probably something that you do in all aspects of your life, and probably one of the reasons why you are struggling with the opposite sex.

I did not write what I wrote to personally attack you. I wrote those words to show you that your behavior is not conducive to being a better man. A Don Juan so to speak. To getting women to drop their panties for you. To having successful long term relationships.

Before you do ANYTHING in regards to dating, look inside yourself, identify what is keeping you from being successful, and do what you can to solve those issues.

Good luck.
 

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In all seriousness....I take on board what you said don...yes a "stalker or worse" has to being somewhere...like a serial killer starts out torturing his/her pets....well i know a few people who were pretty messed up when they were kids.....but they never turned into killers ...not even violent people as adults...one of them is highly functioning and a big success in life, in fact...and no...its not me...Ive always been normal..for what its worth.

To me researching someone is just a logical thing to do..If I was going to do business with someone Id want to know as much about them as possible...And although dating isnt a business, it has many similarities..anything that involves social interaction and people, involves lies, usually...

I think there is a high probability that..because this is a small town..there is a high probability i will meet this woman...so I want to have as much information in my brain, if and when I do..you know Bill Murry in Groundhog day...every day he picked up more details so he would have sharper game to get the girl in the end.....but because of her sketchy data trail..i am actually pretty edgy about even meeting her if i even do get the opportunity...because clearly there is something going on with this woman that could be trouble. And yes I was serious about the spy thing.
 

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are you planning on raping her in a dark alley? Whats with the creepy obsession with a profile?
Oh come on now...I think i made a fair account of myself...I really take objection to this remark...

We live in a world where anything you put online can be tracked ..the US gov do it to all of us...I only tried to find out info to make myslef more appealing to this woman....that's all....if you want to talk trash your talking to the wrong guy...POF stands for plenty of fish..well in order to catch fish you need the right bait for the right fish...thats all im doing.

Also my screen name was a joke...although from being a PUA on and off for years...I see the parallels in being a sociopath...women go for bad boys more often than not...and no Im not a bad boy but ive played the part from time to time...like i said the right bait for the right fish...

If you see a woman your attracted to you have to do all you can in order to appeal to that woman..other wise it is highly unlikely you and her will hit it off...Basically Im not lying to women...just being selective with my likes or hobbies, so to match hers...because I have a very extensive range of interests...



Rapists do not seduce women..they roofie them...in fact its very common...not something ive ever even been tempted to do...what about you though? Or maybe you just get them so drunk they cant make rational choices......don't bother with your weak 455 name calling...so lets be real here.
 

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In all seriousness....I take on board what you said don...yes a "stalker or worse" has to being somewhere...like a serial killer starts out torturing his/her pets....well i know a few people who were pretty messed up when they were kids.....but they never turned into killers ...not even violent people as adults...one of them is highly functioning and a big success in life, in fact...and no...its not me...Ive always been normal..for what its worth.

To me researching someone is just a logical thing to do..If I was going to do business with someone Id want to know as much about them as possible...And although dating isnt a business, it has many similarities..anything that involves social interaction and people, involves lies, usually...

I think there is a high probability that..because this is a small town..there is a high probability i will meet this woman...so I want to have as much information in my brain, if and when I do..you know Bill Murry in Groundhog day...every day he picked up more details so he would have sharper game to get the girl in the end.....but because of her sketchy data trail..i am actually pretty edgy about even meeting her if i even do get the opportunity...because clearly there is something going on with this woman that could be trouble. And yes I was serious about the spy thing.
The one thing that you are going to find out very quickly about this website is the fact that by all means, no matter what, avoid oneitis for a girl-don't get obsessed or infatuated with one girl only unless she is your wife or long term gf, and to spin as many plates as possible-date as many different girls as possible so that you never can get too up or down emotionally on just one girl, which could lead you to do stupid and crazy things like.....over analyzing a POF profile. :)

You already seem as if you have oneitis, or worse, for a girl you have never met yet. Not good. She should be just a brief thought in your head at this point in time. A fleeting moment. When you are talking to, seeing, dating, and fawking a bunch of different girls (while single) you will avoid becoming overly interested in one girl, which as I said can only lead to trouble.

And this is a girl you have never even met no less. I would hate to see how you would react if you ever did start talking to her and ended up going out with her.

Cmon man.

You seem like you would be a great guy to work in the dark dungeons of the CIA or FBI trying to find dirt on people.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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And this is a girl you have never even met no less. I would hate to see how you would react if you ever did start talking to her and ended up going out with her.

Cmon man.

You seem like you would be a great guy to work in the dark dungeons of the CIA or FBI trying to find dirt on people. :)
Seriously im alright..I get the oneitis thing..look like i said this is a 24 hour thing... I find this pof profile hot and fascinating enough to mention it...but it is a fleeting thing with me...does obsession last 24 hours? I dunno but I always lose interest after about a day...thats what drew me to PUA years ago...I dint like LTR and couldn't stand being in them..

I meet smoking hot women every time I go out.and ill meet some tonight...and knowing me one of them will get my interest for a few hours and this one is then forgotten....and yes i hit on them all with varying results...but no I dont get strung up about any of it..........If I met her..haha id just tell her a bunch of whats she want to hear obviously...if she uses websites like fling..she clearly is not girlfriend wife material and Im not looking for one anyhow.....for Gods sake...I know that, I get that...

I just mentioned it because i am surprised to find someone beautiful and supposedly super intelligent on POf....and obviously it drew my attention to want to find out if she was real..as there are so many fakes on there...that is all..in a nut shell..

As for CIA hey id jump at the chance...if they paid top dollar.
 

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I cant believe people actually respond to this kind of cr4p....thought you guys were all to busy with all the multitude of women you supposedly have in your lives....

Oh and by the way it turned out she was a spy afterall...Got me with a blow dart to the heart...See I told you.
 

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I cant believe people actually respond to this kind of cr4p....thought you guys were all to busy with all the multitude of women you supposedly have in your lives....

Oh and by the way it turned out she was a spy afterall...Got me with a blow dart to the heart...See I told you.
Well I can't speak for any others but I have been very happily involved for the past 4 years with my now fiance. Plus I trade stocks online all day so that allows me to visit this and other sites when things are slow in the market.
 

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Hahahhaa. You went through all this trouble to search out some f*cked up broad that you have never met? You must really have no life, standards, or aspirations. Hahahahahahahaha. What kind of loser does this?

I hope this is fake.
 

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God dammit!

Fling.com is a scam website like hornymatches.com.

You have a bad case of oneitis and this sounds like a bad stalker case. Get yourself a life Sociopath and you won't be one.

Case closed. Thread closed. Get out of my court.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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