"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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rhcp83

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I'm curious for the better looking guys that get responses from decent looking women on there to try this out:

"Date tomorrow or just ice cream with the girls?"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Honestly, you're best avoiding lines or gimmicks. Just chat to the women on there naturally, build rapport and make her feel comfortable with you, then offer your number and ask her out.

It's actually very rare I get turned down.
 

rhcp83

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Jariel said:
Honestly, you're best avoiding lines or gimmicks. Just chat to the women on there naturally, build rapport and make her feel comfortable with you, then offer your number and ask her out.

It's actually very rare I get turned down.
You're also super good looking, the kind of guy the women go on here looking for.

My profile doesn't even get looked at when I message a girl, and the rare once in a million view or message I get is from a fattie and I'm not ugly either.
 

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Go to the bars: all the women there without men are there for a reason you know...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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