Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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POF: Uglier in Real Life?

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Are most POF girls uglier in real life? I just joined yesterday and got this girl's number.

http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=41559798

I'm skeptical about meeting up because I feel like girls can do a good job of covering up something wrong with their looks.


Now I know this is about a 50% chance now that I have her number.
I pretty much used this guide as a blueprint and screened for girls only down to smash (http://www.goodlookingloser.com/2012/07/15/get-laid-plenty-of-fish/). NaughtyNinja showed us this guide a bit ago.

My profile has interests like "DTF", "Nice asses", "sexy girls". This should weed out any girl that wants "a relationship".

Anyway, any horror stories about the girl being uglier than the pictures? I am assuming this girl will be a little less attractive than her pictures, but still down to smash.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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actually looks pretty good to me.

She even posted near full body pics....so you know she's not a pig.

It's the ones that only show chest up pics you have to be concerned with imo.
 

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As an israeli of African decent (most audible) I must talk a little bit about the difference between why you FEEL there's a difference and why you CONSIDER those differences enough to substitute. (don't worry , we've all been THERE some of.)

On POF, something I consider a failure to resort to anyway you can only percieve these girls as how they have attempted to portray themselves to you thorugh the small window that is their profile. This is most definitly NOT something to respond, dwell and then actually invest on. We'll find out later. (Do not worry, as an israeli it's FINE LOL)

All in all I would say you are right. So be weary of these things, often they bite you later on. Sometimes even tenfold depending on the investment.

Luckily the girl you showed looks very attractive and I doubt she is anything below dateable and definitly has potential to be genuinely hot. SOME OF THEM ARE EVEN HONEST LOL.

You lucked out. It's fine, now plenty of fish made the chance and you just cannot quite decide how to relate it all.

Lucky guy!
 

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Toast123 said:
As an israeli of African decent (most audible) I must talk a little bit about the difference between why you FEEL there's a difference and why you CONSIDER those differences enough to substitute. (don't worry , we've all been THERE some of.)

On POF, something I consider a failure to resort to anyway you can only percieve these girls as how they have attempted to portray themselves to you thorugh the small window that is their profile. This is most definitly NOT something to respond, dwell and then actually invest on. We'll find out later. (Do not worry, as an israeli it's FINE LOL)

All in all I would say you are right. So be weary of these things, often they bite you later on. Sometimes even tenfold depending on the investment.

Luckily the girl you showed looks very attractive and I doubt she is anything below dateable and definitly has potential to be genuinely hot. SOME OF THEM ARE EVEN HONEST LOL.

You lucked out. It's fine, now plenty of fish made the chance and you just cannot quite decide how to relate it all.

Lucky guy!
Hmm I can't really understand some of your sentences. How did I luck out? I put up pictures of myself without a shirt on and she answered my message. We will just have to wait and see if she wants some d!ck.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Oh...my....god.

What did you do? Thats a ****ing horror story. I guess full body shots are essential.
 

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Sofomore said:
I guess full body shots are essential.

I don't send messages of any kind to women who don't post full body shots.

I've had this happen twice the last few years....never again.
 

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BeginningDJ said:
What I was led to believe
http://imgur.com/HwBQu

What nearly broke my futon
http://imgur.com/IKxrW

She drove an hour to my place, didn't have the heart to cut bait. I was making the coffee like Michael J. Fox.
You were simply a victim of the fat girl photo trick.

Short of getting a full body photo, there are other ways to see if a chick is really a chubby.



1. Armpit cleavage. look at her pits. if there is "V" cleavage, she's chubby. a slim chick pit looks like an upside down "U".

2. look at her biceps. they should be roughly the same width as her forearm and her forearms shouldn't be that much bigger than her wrists. If she has guns and not obviously a body builder, she's a chubby.

Women with decent bodies are proud of their image and won't hesitate to show it off.

So the question of the night, did you still fucc her?
 

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Blackmm said:
You were simply a victim of the fat girl photo trick.

Short of getting a full body photo, there are other ways to see if a chick is really a chubby.



1. Armpit cleavage. look at her pits. if there is "V" cleavage, she's chubby. a slim chick pit looks like an upside down "U".

2. look at her biceps. they should be roughly the same width as her forearm and her forearms shouldn't be that much bigger than her wrists. If she has guns and not obviously a body builder, she's a chubby.

Women with decent bodies are proud of their image and won't hesitate to show it off.

So the question of the night, did you still fucc her?
:crackup: :crackup: :crackup:

My condolences to that man. Holy crap she was hideous in the actual pic (2nd one).

You're bang on with your points. However, I would like to just add one a couple more points:

1) If she is ALWAYS tilting her head at an angle in her pics, she's likely fat. Tilting the head at an angle hides face fat and is a common trick land-beasts like to use to hide their hideous blubber.

2) Compare her biceps to her neck. Her biceps should be noticeably thinner than her neck. If her biceps look anywhere as big as her neck, she is chubby or just plain fat.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So the question of the night, did you still fucc her?
I can hear it now -

You are guilty of illegal use of escalation and whale hunting, rewarding your desperation, aggravated chubby chasing and lost of self-respect. Judge Nismo sentences you to 3 years in Tubbytown, Lardimore and eternal ban of all PUA forums. Case closed. Get out of my court.
 

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You will deft meet some chicks from there that are 20-30 lbs heavier than their pics. Even the full body shots. It's not hard to Take sexy pics memorial day weekend and then pound mcdonalds for 2-3 months and blowup like a blimp without you knowing until you actually meet
 

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Id say the worst thing about online dating is the subterfuge. You can give me a female gorilla and with enough makeup, expensive clothes, grooming, surgery, creative camera angles you would believe you were not good enough to bang the gorilla...
 

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Lol you ain't lying! One camera trick to watch out for is the up high hippo angle (sry don't remember which member came up with that term to give proper credit). This is the fat chicks who take all their pics from up above to create the illusion that they're not fat
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Women are increasingly vain creatures. Trust me, if she thinks that she looks good enough she will have full body HD pictures up and you're lucky she doesn't have some corny collage up. Otherwise her pics look like a Sasquatch or UFO siting picture you can find on the internet.

High shots
Pictures where someone has been cut out
Blurry pics
Old pics
Pics of pets
Face shots
Far shots

Look out for all of these things...
 

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This one I saw once, said in her profile her body type: Athletic.
Had photos crammed into too tight dresses to make her look thinner.
Athletic my A$$.

Selling an untruthful presentation that no decent guy would put up with.


I get annoyed by the ones with multiple women in every shot.....

WHO THE HELL ARE YOU!
 

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pdx1138 said:
This one I saw once, said in her profile her body type: Athletic.
Had photos crammed into too tight dresses to make her look thinner.
Athletic my A$$.
She wasn't necessarily lying.
Maybe she was a sumo wrestler.
:)
 

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BeginningDJ said:
I can hear it now -

You are guilty of illegal use of escalation and whale hunting, rewarding your desperation, aggravated chubby chasing and lost of self-respect. Judge Nismo sentences you to 3 years in Tubbytown, Lardimore and eternal ban of all PUA forums. Case closed. Get out of my court.
Respect to the judge but awesome, just awesome.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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