Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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POF regarding shirtless pics

Naughty Ninja

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Went past my ten post limit so I'll start a quick thread on shirtless pics.

Most important. DO NOT USE a shirtless pic unless you look pretty defined as in you work out. NOT if you look like you mostly sit on the couch.

Shirtless pics are NOT OK for men on POF. Why? Most likely because they know those types of dudes pull off that site easily (especially if cut up) and the site NEEDS dudes to be clueless chumps sitting on that site 'hoping' and running around aimlessly forever for clicks on pages and more $$$ per click from advertisers.

What you have to do is put up your best shirtless pic. Beach is best. And HIDE it on your profile. You still may get caught by POF and have it removed but it will last longer than some bitter chick reporting you A.S.A.P because you blew her off for whatever reason.

Hide it by clicking "do not make public" in the image section on your profile. You can still see your hidden pic in email and click it when you send an email and the chick will see it.

Since you can get removed from the site for shirtless pics you might want to hide your profile period as well as the shirtless and just message chicks. They'll see your pics when you send them an email BUT if the conversation goes bad for some reason you CAN (do not get in the last word) click block user while NOT replying (or else you can't block them) and then they can't find your hidden profile as the entire message thread gets deleted and hidden since your profile is hidden from them attempting to report you.

ALWAYS ADD AT LEAST TWO INCHES TO YOUR HEIGHT. Chicks will automatically assume you are two inches shorter than what you put.

If you're 5'10 = 6ft. 5'8 = 5'10. This way if you meet the chick she won't notice much difference.

Also what Bukowski Merit said below in another thread:

Use four of your best pics max.

6. Go to 'My Best Face" and upload what you think might be your 4 best pics. Go ahead and rate 40 battles. Then wait for your report to finish. Put up any photos that get above a 72. Leave the rest in the garbage no matter how good you think they are. 2 photos is fine. 4 is the max! Women are going to rate you based on your worst pic! Best to give them little options.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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bigneil

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What kind of loser would post a shirtless picture of themself online? ;)

Good info Ninja.
 

Poonani Maker

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Naughty Ninja said:
Women are going to rate you based on your worst pic! Best to give them little options
This is good info, Naughty. I've got One pic that's not so great of me fishing. The shirt I was wearing at the time makes me look like I've got man-boobs, when I have a well-sculpted body through and through. This is my oldest pic and needs to be removed, and I think that it is holding me back. I am Not getting views/messages in the month of June/July like I was before. Not only that, I uploaded a pic of me shooting my AK-47 and it could be that POF has limited the number of women (or some woman reported it, who knows) who are able to see my profile now. The gun pick could be a turn-off to most women idk.

Pics are everything though, no doubt about it. If I find the right set then views and messages go up a lot.
 
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