“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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POF: Only accept messages from upgraded users

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ThisNThat

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This has been going on for a while now, but there had been threads on their forums about this complaint and how POF is now taking it upon themselves to police who we decide to message.

The one that irks me the most is they LET you compose a message and wait until you hit the "send" button in order to pop up that you're unable to contact them.

The "upgraded users" one is a pet peeve of mine as I think the user may have accidentally or inadvertently put that setting.

What gets me the most is that aren't an upgraded user themselves.

POF was a 100% free site for many years and people still think it's free and I would imagine those who HAD upgraded is sliver of a percentage and where I live, chances are a woman is not getting any emails if she's made that setting...so she may have done it on accident, right?

I recall that sometimes POF would randomly pick people to upgrade...for free, right?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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The market will dictate and they will have to correct their actions. Otherwise they'll go out of business.
It's funny when companies change their core values that got them to where they are eBay comes to mind as well.
 
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POF is the bottom barrel of OLD IMO.

Get off of that site.

I dabble with OLD here and there and Bumble, Match and even Tinder seem to be a much greater selection of "normal" women.
 
The Duke

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POF definitely isn't what it used to be. I don't use it anymore. Too much trashy white girls and too many black girls.
 
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