"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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POF Gems, post yours here!

Tortendieb

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Ever use POF or online dating? It's actually a lot of fun to just read how some girls describe themselves, and what they say expect from you... sometimes I feel I just have to share :D

I'll start with this:
"I am old-fashioned. I think the man should pay on dates and I believe the man should work and the woman should stay home and look after the children. But I still think the man should help the woman when she needs it."
Bahaha, have the man earn the money but still do her stuff when she's lazy! By the way, her main interests are Pokemon and Sailor Moon. :whistle:
You guys have some goodies?

P.S. don't start ranting about all women in this thread please, it's just for poking some fun :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Poonani Maker

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Well, I've never contacted any of them for sexual encounters, but they've volunteered their numbers to me quite often, many do not, but I just received This message after I inquired to the admins about why I've apparently been blocked by some psychopathic women by virtue of the fact that my profile no longer receives any "views" or messages:

"Plentyoffish users have the option to select if they wish to be available for contact from others that have made contact with those looking for Intimate Encounters. Once you have contacted more than four users looking for Intimate Encounters you are restricted from contacting members that have this feature in place. This block cannot be reset."

So these psychopathic women on POF can just simply Say they've been messaged for "Intimate encounters" 4 times and you're forever blocked? That's a fvcked up and biased system set up against us guys if you ask me. Let me repeat, I've NEVER messaged for sex on there. I've messaged to meet up, but never explicitly for the sake of having sex.

I guess I'd have to create a whole new profile to bother ever going on there again. Pathetic.
 
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