POF denting my confidence/game

[betheman]

thing with online datng/POF etc... is this. it gives women the very thing we on this site, and others strive and lust for...easy lays, a steady stream of suitors knocking on our doors, a light switch of selection, binary...on/off, simple!
thing is its soo easy for women, made easier by online game.
message to poon ...dont give her options, tell her, leave it at her door, be bossy, you dont mess about yeah? be different.

 

[Poonani Maker]

^^ well, she messages back that we'd have to go "later," and then that she's out with her "sister" now, then some typos, then that if we can't tonight, then tomorrow. I reply that tomorrow's fine after 4 or 5 PM, but that if we do tonight then no eating, just concert/festival.

I bet you 100% she says to do it tomorrow, and then tomorrow says she can't. I'll give her a weekend's chance, but most of Sunday up until 5 PM I can't be with her.

Also, I tell her to let me know about tonight by 6 PM. I predict she'll say that she won't know by then, to do tomorrow. If she does this, then I won't respond ever again, and will go out to a city much farther away (rooftop party), then to my fvckbud after I guess (but I really don't feel like fvcking her, she's hot thin and young but I'm not in the mood for fvcking just in the mood for getting girls interested for later-on-down-the-line fvcking...I'm looking to make contacts tonight, nothing more..If I had a ONS tonight from some chick at the party, then I would stop at fvcking her cause, I just don't feel like entering a chick that far tonight).

 

[betheman]

I wouldnt bother responding to this one

 

[incognito42]

Sounds to me like you need to use naughty ninjas strategy. I think you're forcing things instead of making these flakey AW Pof sloots single you out as someone they want to see/ask out. Simplify things. Spam. Ask how the sites treating them. Then get the number. If a chick on Pof Is feeling you she will love how direct you are, shell realize you're not being a creepy perv like the other guys thT message them but instead a man who knows what he wants, and they won't have been given any time or reason to lose interest. Don't try and setup dates. Dont get in long winded boring convos that serve no purpose, like asking about their day/pet/family/job etc. When they ask you things don't give open ended responses and be very short with your answer. You wanna build up 90% of their interest with your pics, your initial message, and your profile

When you text them you can open up a little more dialogue again depending on the girl. I've found that texting them saying who you are and that this is your number is a good first text. Then some fluff question like how their day/night/weekend is going. If I'm still not picking up a great feel for how open they're being with me I'll ask what they're up to and see how they respond. Then I'll ask for a pic. A lot of times I'll then jump right into pushing for nude pics. Try and add some charm and wit in there and that usually helps them reaffirm that you're ok and that they can sen one. Some girls just won't though. Not all of this textung strategy that i petsonally use is necessary for simply setting up a date, however I'm now able to screen and weed out a HUGE portion of potential flakes or chicks who my not be DTF on the first night

I really know what you mean. Just a couple of hours ago, b!tch totally interested (I'd added 2 new pics from yesterday), ask her what she's gonna be doing tonight, she says nothing blah blah, then asks me, I tell her exactly what I'm contemplating doing but am iffy on it, she messages back that she's free to go out in my town tonight (of course, using the word "maybe"), so I message back 2-3 things we could do here, go eat bbq, go eat at a fine expensive restaurant (I named it, I like it and I'll be hungry), and/or walk around/talk/listen to music at a festival that's taking place here all weekend. Yep, you guessed it, 2 hours later, she STILL hasn't responded/still logged off. I think that she was just fishing this morning/afternoon for dudes who'd be willing to take her out to boost her ego or tell her gf(s) who's house she's at about 5-10 miles south of me.

Plenty of Flakes, more apt, I'm getting pretty sick of it guys I'm good-looking but getting ever older. I CAN/am supposed to hook-up with this chick tonight I've already fvcked before, but I don't really want to fvck Any girl tonight, I just want to go out and have good times with one, maybe kiss, feel up, but no sex. I can't even get that good times anymore, but I can get a booty call from one who already knows me and has wanted me to call her for a month. I did finally this week.

 

[Poonani Maker]

This one, last night, messaged back (not texting as I had asked her to do "from now on") saying that she'd couldn't do anything last night (as I had predicted to you guys here in this thread, 100% forecast...easy). So she broke 2 of my stipulations: 1, to give me an answer BEfore 6 PM, and 2, to Text me from now on. She messaged that she will text me tomorrow (today) to go do something "Sunday." I just responded with, "It's raining" even though it wasn't and isn't forecasted for today either, just "it's raining" just threw that out there for her to ponder, a bold-faced lie like she's most likely done to me, a complete stranger, about 3 times already lol. These b!tches have NO accountability guys, none. I'm seriously thinking about moving out of the US. I don't mind Communism, totalitarianism, lack of freedom, as long as my woman is a faithful good (try not to lie) servant housewife, I'll be happy wherever I go. http://finance.yahoo.com/blogs/daily-ticker/why-men-failing-economy-130616322.html

 

[incognito42]

You cant let them bother you. They all have serious issues on Pof. Just don't let it phase you or don't let them know it if it does