"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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POF date that ended quite bad!

shizz702

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Well, so been messing around with this chick I met on POF. Going at it for about 2 or 3 weeks.

We decided we wanted to get a room and pound it out for the night. Had a few drinks and went on to the room and escalated from there.

Well I suppose it was due to her having had one too many drinks cause she was quite lame in the sack this time and I was really getting irritable with her. And she was into biting and kept biting all over me lol and I just was not digging that.

I suppose she could sense my dissatisfaction afterward, and kept wanting to cuddle with me and ask why I wasn't being affectionate.

I started thinking maybe I should just move on from this one cause I realized there wasn't going to be much potential there, and lo and behold came my exit strategy.

Well I noticed when I went to set my alarm on my phone another plate sent me a text wanting to meet up. So when I was on my phone she started automatically accusing me of texting another chick after I just slept with her and that that was disrespectful.

I never told her or led her on that we would be exclusive, and nor did I ever lead her on to think otherwise. Lol she threw down the jealousy card with full force. Then she was like well you obviously got someone else more on your mind if you are going to be texting her after that! Why don't you just have her then? I said why not have you both?!

So I saw where this was going and she was getting all weird and blowing her phone up with I presume messages to her peeps about all this. I figured f<ck it, gonna be like that, deuces.

She went in the bathroom, and I bailed and left her there. I've been through this kind of stuff before and I know when they get like that there is no reasoning with them. It's best to just walk away.

She sent me a bunch of lame texts and tried calling and all was ignored. NC'd and deleted. Can't be afraid to walk away and move on to the next one.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I was seeing a "Biter" from pof too...wtf is up with that!
 

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pdx1138 said:
I was seeing a "Biter" from pof too...wtf is up with that!
Lol I don't know man but the last 2 chicks I have hooked up with are into it so I beginning to see a trend here.

This one was on one! I literally got bite marks all over my chest and collar bone, normally she would be a bit gentle but this time it was rough and even bit in some areas that I was like wtf! And she would want me to bite her, and would keep on wanting me to bite harder. Chicks these days bro!
 

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hahahah man i actually laughed haha
You are harsh.. but a mans gotta do what a mans gotta do i guess!

I know what you mean though with girls being so irritating that you just cant handle it anymore. But the need to bail only comes after you've had her, if she is hot.
I personally would tolerate annoyance until we hook up, then if it persists i leave.
So good by you.. move onto better things
 

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wow man, I feel sorry for any girl that ever comes in to contact with you. Think of how she must feel. At least you could have acted like a decent human being and made it a little easier on her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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yikes that was kind of classless OP. Like, more than kind of. I have slept with many chicks who were fukking awful in bed, but you give em a smile and a hug and then later tell them they were awful in bed rather than coming off as the bad guy.

This does two things:

1) makes her concentrate on getting better in bed for the next guy.
2) makes her not see casual sex as "bad" so the next guy has a shot.

Think about your fellow men. Don't make guys look like douchebags. Some day I or another dude here might want to bone down on her without having to buy her a ring (or dinner) beforehand.

Think people!
 

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This wasn't about smashing and dashing, or wanting to ditch her just cause she sucked in bed.

We had already been messing around for a few weeks like I said and it was just this particular time where it sucked.

I omitted details here but she was also starting to get on my nerves, very clingy, and very needy. And as said she knew I wasn't trying to get serious with her.

The whole point of this was her reaction to me texting another chick. I ain't down with that noise. I wasn't hers and do I not have the right to see other chicks? I would not have even cared if she wanted to discuss it but she was going off on one of those emotional rants and I just can't deal w!th taht kind of sh!t.

I'm to the point where when chicks wanna get all weird and get their panties in a bunch over some bs, f it I'm moving on. Can't be afraid to just walk away and in my opinion it was well played cause when they get all emotional like that there is no reasoning with them.

Plus I just got out of a ltr and ain't trying to go back to one any time soon. I back on the prowl just spinning plates and having fun.
 

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That's some Twilight vampire sh!t! Lol
 

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POF chicks are crazy bro, trust me I lived in a fighters house in Vegas and all of us had POF accounts and there were POF chicks over all the time and they were all crazy bit$%%. The crazy thing was they all put out but none of these chicks were girls you want to take home to mom lol
 

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iwanttofight said:
POF chicks are crazy bro, trust me I lived in a fighters house in Vegas and all of us had POF accounts and there were POF chicks over all the time and they were all crazy bit$%%. The crazy thing was they all put out but none of these chicks were girls you want to take home to mom lol

Ha tell me about it bro! I'm starting to see the trend here as many on the forum have mentioned POF being full of crazies, and this is my first time messing with it.

Funny how chicks on there will try act all stout about not looking for a hookup, but looking for "the one" instead, but will put out real quick if you know how to get it out of them.

This one listed herself looking for a serious relationship and not to message her for a hookup, yet our first night out together ended with me tearing it up in the backseat!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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