POF carpet raid experiment

[Hyper2010]

Ok guys,

Attempting an experiment - I aquired Doc Love's 'the System' a few days ago, and he mentions frequently how dating is a numbers game. I wondered if I could apply the same to POF...

Thinking of sending 1000 messages, only to women, whom I would seriously go near. I also intend to attempt a phone number close within first 20 messages of each convo that starts, with each women. Ive had relationships and success with women on POF before, and the one unifying factor is that if they are serious about meeting/dating you they will give the number pretty soonish. Ive fallen for the trap of E-mail chat friend before, and ended up messaging someone for 6 weeks and when asked about the numebr had excuses like 'its too early' or 'I dont know you well enough yet' thrown at me.

Gonna report back any success I may have on here and see how it goes. The aim here is to get number and establish a line of dependable communication.

Any advice/ideas before I begin??

Any feedback???

 

[HalfPUAHalfAFC]

Waiting 20 messages is too long.

Five or less.

"Hey HB, this little online chitchat has been fun, but it is hard to get to know someone through a keyboard and this IS a dating website, no? How about we go get a drink [on this day at this place]? Here's my number: xxx-xxxx"

If they don't bite on that, move on.

Afterall, you are playing a numbers game here and don't want to spend hours upon hours messages 100s of women 20 times or so....

Don't feed the attention *****z and only spend time with women actually interested in getting out.

 

[HedoRick]

You can only spam out 40 messages a day to POF chicks just FYI... That being said let us know the results of this little experiment.

Grab the number after 3-5 emails and your good to go.

 

[pdx1138]

Thinking of sending 1000 messages, only to women, whom I would seriously go near.

Is there even that many you would go near, in your city?

Agreed on meeting up after 5 messages. If they are truly interested they will meet you, if not they go ghost.

 

[Zarky]

Still not entirely sure what the deal is with guys getting phone numbers and thinking that's something important. 75% of the dates I go on are set up before the numbers are even exchanged.

Get DATES, not numbers!

Unless you all want to be 40 year old virgins like Naughty Ninja. He was great at getting numbers I guess, but never got any poon.

Are you here to get numbers or to get poon?

 

[like2jam]

Definitely aim for dates over numbers. I invite for a date now within my 3rd message to them. ( sometimes 4th or 5th ) A lot of times they just give me their number ( on OKC that is ) when I ask them to get a drink. I never give them my number first, ever. In fact, I never give them my number unless they actually ask for it, or until I contact them, and then they get my number that way.

 

[djjizzyjeff]

Still not entirely sure what the deal is with guys getting phone numbers and thinking that's something important. 75% of the dates I go on are set up before the numbers are even exchanged.

Get DATES, not numbers!

Unless you all want to be 40 year old virgins like Naughty Ninja. He was great at getting numbers I guess, but never got any poon.

Are you here to get numbers or to get poon?

You need a contact number no Sparky the clown shoe? You get numbers and set up dates IF you want to use POF for some side pvzzy.

I didn't care to meet POF slores. Just used it to pass the time and test the troll skillz. I meet enough chicks in real life. Like it or not.

Then again a 38 year old homeless dyke who's never put up a thread with her "proven" techniques to show how she does it better needs to sit down on a butt plug pacifier and shut the glory hole she calls a mouth if she can't show and prove or have anyone verify her methods actually work.


*And it's 44 year old virgin. Don't forget it punk.

 

[Zarky]

I never give them my number first, ever. In fact, I never give them my number unless they actually ask for it, or until I contact them, and then they get my number that way.

Yes. One caveat.. I do give them my number once we've set up the date. For example:

ME: So let's get together at XXX place on YYY day at ZZZ time.
HER: Ok, see you then.
ME: Great, here's my cell num in case you have to get in touch: 123-456-7890

That's pretty much how it goes down for me usually.