“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Pof - Best Opener!!

Blitzy88

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Hey guys,

New to this site. Joined POF recently......and like most people you get to the point where your like 'how can I be different'.

Well luckily for you all these average frustrated POF users have laid the ground work and Ive spent a bit of time coming up with a tried and tested opener of my own. I have had about 80% reply rates using this with great responses. Let me know your thoughts.





Firstly how do I go about being different sending this one email of I’m sure tons that your getting?

Do I go the majority kind of guy – ‘Hey, how are you?’ (Because it’s the best they can come up with)

Or the Flattery guy – ‘Wow you look gorgeous in your photos’ (Secretly hoping they get more than ‘Thanks’ as a reply….if any)

How about the were so alike guy – ‘Oh my god we have so much in common’ (start reeling off a list of interests hoping to provoke a conversation)

Theres always, the sleazy guy – ‘Ive asked santa to put you on my xmas list and to leave you under my tree wrapped in nothing but a bow. ;)’ (So they can dream of the day the girl turns around and is like ‘oh my god where have you been all my life?’)

The negative guy – ‘If I were you theres one photo Id delete!’ (Thinking that by some miracle you will reply as if he has helped you out and suddenly you will be interested in him)

Cant forget the funny guy – ‘Have you got all your teeth?’ (which on POF lets face could also be a serious question haha)

Bet you can relate to a few of these cant you? lol x





Been sending this to hot girls like 7 pluses only. Responses have been like:

'Haha that made me laugh! Its so true. How are you? x' (we have been texting since)

'Haha Did you google that?' (Cheeky cow I replied sayin 'Wow i use a bit of creativity and this is where it gets me........thanks ;) lol. x') I now have her number

'So to be different you have listed all the different boring messages I recieve on a daily basis' (I replied 'Well im guessing not one of those boring messages got a response though did they.......I did, so can that be 1-0 to me?')

She then replied 'Haha very true! yes its 1-0 to you :p x' (Were chatting at the moment)




By using these boring messages and putting a spin on them it now works....Cheers to all the boring guys haha!

So guys feel free to give this a go. Response rate is amazing. No bad replies or anything. Let me know how you get on.

Happy fishing ;)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

Icegreen

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I usually just send chicks messages telling them they will never be able to get **** from a guy like me. It doesn't work, but who cares.
 

Driggs

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I feel sorry for some of those women. Damn... cannot unsee. Some are so ugly that I've used Adblock to block their images so I don't have to ever see them.
 

Blitzy88

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Hey Social.......

Yeah I spent a bit of time thinking about it.... and it turns out the boring people did all the hard work! replies have been amazing....been speaking to a lot of 8's and 9's using this!

Pretty much get a reply 8/10 times! Glad its worked for you as well. I will take your advice and remove tomorrow. Give a few more people a chance to see it.

Cheers
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

GS750

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Great idea. I'm going to tweak it a bit and see if it works for me.
 

Blitzy88

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GS750

let me know how you get on. Be interesting to see other peoples thoughts.

cheers
 

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Blitzy88 said:
Hey guys,

New to this site. Joined POF recently......and like most people you get to the point where your like 'how can I be different'.

Well luckily for you all these average frustrated POF users have laid the ground work and Ive spent a bit of time coming up with a tried and tested opener of my own. I have had about 80% reply rates using this with great responses. Let me know your thoughts.





Firstly how do I go about being different sending this one email of I’m sure tons that your getting?

Do I go the majority kind of guy – ‘Hey, how are you?’ (Because it’s the best they can come up with)

Or the Flattery guy – ‘Wow you look gorgeous in your photos’ (Secretly hoping they get more than ‘Thanks’ as a reply….if any)

How about the were so alike guy – ‘Oh my god we have so much in common’ (start reeling off a list of interests hoping to provoke a conversation)

Theres always, the sleazy guy – ‘Ive asked santa to put you on my xmas list and to leave you under my tree wrapped in nothing but a bow. ;)’ (So they can dream of the day the girl turns around and is like ‘oh my god where have you been all my life?’)

The negative guy – ‘If I were you theres one photo Id delete!’ (Thinking that by some miracle you will reply as if he has helped you out and suddenly you will be interested in him)

Cant forget the funny guy – ‘Have you got all your teeth?’ (which on POF lets face could also be a serious question haha)

Bet you can relate to a few of these cant you? lol x





Been sending this to hot girls like 7 pluses only. Responses have been like:

'Haha that made me laugh! Its so true. How are you? x' (we have been texting since)

'Haha Did you google that?' (Cheeky cow I replied sayin 'Wow i use a bit of creativity and this is where it gets me........thanks ;) lol. x') I now have her number

'So to be different you have listed all the different boring messages I recieve on a daily basis' (I replied 'Well im guessing not one of those boring messages got a response though did they.......I did, so can that be 1-0 to me?')

She then replied 'Haha very true! yes its 1-0 to you :p x' (Were chatting at the moment)




By using these boring messages and putting a spin on them it now works....Cheers to all the boring guys haha!

So guys feel free to give this a go. Response rate is amazing. No bad replies or anything. Let me know how you get on.

Happy fishing ;)

Sounds like a very good opener. When I'm bored and decide to spam openers on POF again I'll try it out. Sounds like it would definitely work.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I have been using the opener posted by humbleninja and its been pretty good. I usually cut and paste, but its actually true with regards to my situation so its really easy to roll with a conversation afterwards. However this one is straight up hilarious. Going to give it a shot as well.
 

Blitzy88

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Humbleninja.....once you have had a chance post results. Be interesting to see. Literally felt like cheating it was that easy to get replies.


Synergy its so easy to keep a conversation going after a reply with this. You start to get same replies more you use it. Most pf the time girls laugh about it and ask which one you are. Or compliment your creativity and goes from there.
 
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