"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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POF ain't working anymore (1 month 3 hours a day)

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I just spammed for three hours for the last month using the Method Jinja taught, and nothing.

Maybe they have caught on to this method or the girls have become colder in the last month,

but 0 numbers in 1 month.

I put in three hours everyday.

It goes to show you, day by day, month by month, the girls in North America, are getting colder, and more demanding.

It gets worse and worse for guys who are not FAMOUS/INFAMOUS.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Espi said:
How many email replies did you get?
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I get replies but no numbers,
mostly just to waste my time.

AND TO MAKE FUN OF ME:

Look at what this girl wrote:

"Ahaha, that is very sweet of you to say about my profile! It's not easy to come up with something that represents your personality, as I'm sure you can relate to! PS impressive muscles!"

Shes making fun of me.

I get this followed by:

I dont just hand out my number to any guy.
 
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J Roc said:
online macking is lame
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So I'm walking downtown on the street, a group of girls is crossing the rode waiting on the sidewalk for the light to change. I pass by there, minding my own business and accidently I blocked them snapping a photo of each other I am right in front of the camera as I cross the road, and one of them says to me "Ewww, theres some guy in the way, GET OUT HERE YOU ****ING LOSER".

This is in the clubbing district, and the girls were all dressed up in high heels ready to hit the clubs.

Yeah, going about in real life is much better.

Even minding your own business, girls have to insult me. Wow.

I can understand if I went up and tried to talk with one of them they would say that to me,
but no I was just minding my own business and I get this.
 
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You could always give up. Maybe then you'll STOP CRYING all the time. :cry: But what would momma think? Hmmmm....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Let's stop the nonsense GSP. I've been in your profile and had seven numbers in a few days IF that was even you in the pictures. Now even a troll would say fvck it and call the chicks and setup a meet IF you actually wanted to meet those chicks. (unless he's a homo)

You did the exact opposite of what you were told to do. I think you might just be looking to come out of the closet instead.
 
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Naughty Ninja said:
Let's stop the nonsense GSP. I've been in your profile and had seven numbers in a few days IF that was even you in the pictures. Now even a troll would say fvck it and call the chicks and setup a meet IF you actually wanted to meet those chicks. (unless he's a homo)

You did the exact opposite of what you were told to do. I think you might just be looking to come out of the closet instead.
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Naughty Ninja said:
Let's stop the nonsense GSP. I've been in your profile and had seven numbers in a few days IF that was even you in the pictures. Now even a troll would say fvck it and call the chicks and setup a meet IF you actually wanted to meet those chicks. (unless he's a homo)

You did the exact opposite of what you were told to do. I think you might just be looking to come out of the closet instead.
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Yeah that was a few months ago I believe. When I called the chicks, they hung up on me, so I deleted my account.

I tried going out in real life and trying to open at the GYM, CLUB, BEACH, MALL, you name it, and nothing worked.

After that unsuccessful stint in real life, i go on to try online again because thats what im reduce to. And for the past month, I have 0 numbers this time. Perhaps there are many people employing the same strategy and the girls have noticed, or the girls have become colder in the last month.

I am sure the girls have gotten colder.
 
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One time I had a nice email exchange with a girl on POF. I got her number and I called her, and she answered "Who the f**k is this?"

And I told her my name. And she said, "I don't talk to online losers." So then I started crying and deleted my account.

If this is how women treat men in this country, then I'm just going to buy a Russian bride online.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gpshields3 said:
One time I had a nice email exchange with a girl on POF. I got her number and I called her, and she answered "Who the f**k is this?"

And I told her my name. And she said, "I don't talk to online losers." So then I started crying and deleted my account.

If this is how women treat men in this country, then I'm just going to buy a Russian bride online.
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lool..

hey that's my plan, minus the marrying. I plan to spread my seed across the globe and hope they keep and raise the baby.
 
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OP I think you're the biggest troll here. Why the f*ck would anybody ask for a phone number online. You give yours after a few emails and they'll often give theirs.
 
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I put girls on a point system...Ill write them a message and if they play along ill give them a few points...then say when you reach ten we can hangout...they actually try really hard for something made up...after a few more messages of taking away point and adding them ill get the number and set up the date.
 
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Espi said:
Keep the email volleys rather short...in my opinion no more than 4 emails should go by before proposing a face to face encounter...dont even bother asking for the number...just invite her out for a drink...she'll then go ghost on you or she'll accept the invite...or she'll offer up her number...
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That's what I've been doing the last two years and it works best for me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zarky said:
OP I think you're the biggest troll here. Why the f*ck would anybody ask for a phone number online. You give yours after a few emails and they'll often give theirs.
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I never give my number anymore. I've done it 3 times total, upon request, and didn't hear from them. I've always asked for the number and always after 3 messages

I agree the op is a troll. A girl gave you her number online, you call and she answers "who the **** is this" (highly unlikely) and then you tell her and she says she doesn't talk to Internet losers AFTER handing over her number online (extremely unlikely)?
 
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incognito42 said:
I never give my number anymore. I've done it 3 times total, upon request, and didn't hear from them. I've always asked for the number and always after 3 messages

I agree the op is a troll. A girl gave you her number online, you call and she answers "who the **** is this" (highly unlikely) and then you tell her and she says she doesn't talk to Internet losers AFTER handing over her number online (extremely unlikely)?
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I didnt write that crap about internet losers, thats gpshields3,

i am gspshields2,

some guy is trying to pretend to be me, look carefully.
 
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