"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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jrme1212

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alright...theres this girl that i havent to in a long time. all of a sudden out of no where she i/ms me and says she likes me. then she asks me out but i didnt really answer. but like 4 months ago i almost went out with her and i found out she was playing me so we didnt end up going out with her. i dont kno if she is playing me right now...im pretty sure she is, but i have no clue. help me out here plz
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Vincent

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Originally posted by jrme1212
alright...theres this girl that i havent to in a long time. all of a sudden out of no where she i/ms me and says she likes me. then she asks me out but i didnt really answer. but like 4 months ago i almost went out with her and i found out she was playing me so we didnt end up going out with her. i dont kno if she is playing me right now...im pretty sure she is, but i have no clue. help me out here plz
Make her work for it, see if she's being serious or not.

Generally if a chick is going after you, it won't work. If your interested in her, then play hard to get for a little while, then make your move.
 

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No offense but it sounds like this girl is a slut:

but like 4 months ago i almost went out with her and i found out she was playing me so we didnt end up going out with her.
Any girl who played you isn't worth your time. Here's how I would have played the situation. Make her prove herself to you. She needs to prove that she won't play you again. You'll know she isn't playing when you use a lot of Kino and she begs. When she is attached to you, you need to decide if she is what you want.

BTW, if a girl contacts you out of the blue, and you haven't spoken to her in a while, that means she might be using you. Whatever, good luck with it.
 

Jerky Boi

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Originally posted by Strong325
BTW, if a girl contacts you out of the blue, and you haven't spoken to her in a while, that means she might be using you. Whatever, good luck with it.

Agreed. Her bf might have just kicked her to the curb and she might be just coming back to you off the rebound. But, then again, that's just looking at the worst possible scenario.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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