"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Plz explain

HighResurrection

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This girl is from a pickup then email correspondence.


> It's Rez
>
> Yah I could tutor you but you would have to pay me though.


Girl:

Hi there.
uhmm i aint got no money to pay, i am broke but its okay i will try to figure it out bymyself then.

Girl:

do you know anyone who might help me out with some math...for free ?


Me:

Yah I know a couple people, I don't think they would do it for free though. I can look around for you if you want. Keep in mind you want the best quality not no average tutor. You seem like a disciplined student maybe we can work something out.

Rez


Sent from my iPhone

Girl:

oh okay, yea i didnt think no one would do it for free. but thanks anyways.
I try to be a discipline student lol.Smile
you seem very mature


Me:

Yah you have to be mature if you wanna teach. Im willing to teach you but on the real this poor girl thing has to go :) Maybe there is some secretarial work you can do for me.

Rez


Sent from my iPhone

Girl:

YOUR FUKIN RUDE INCONSIDERATE UNLCLASSY *****... I CANT BELIVE U HAD THE NERVE TO CALL ME POOR GIRL AND OFFER ME A SENSUAL MESSAGE... IF I WAS A FUKIN PROSTITUTE I WULD OF FUKED U ALREADY.... I RESPECT MYSELF AND BODY NOT LIKE YOUU.... I DONT EVEN KNO WHY U WULD ASK ME THIS U KNO UR LIKE 40 YEARS YERS OLD RITE? THATS MALESTING ME U DIRTY ASS *****,... DELET MY EMAIL DNT MESSAGE CUZ IF U DO ILL TELL MY FRIEND AND HER DAD IS A COP!!!!!!!! NOW GO TAKE CARE OF UR FAMILY U LYING PIECE CHEATING BASTARD MY FRIEND KNOWS WHO U ARE SO IF U KEEP MESSING AROUND ILL EXPOSE UR LIFE TO UR WIFE..... AFTER YOU READ THIS U MITE GET MAD BUT I DNT GIVE A FUK NOW GO SMOKE A BLUNT!!!!!


(ok...........................)(so WTF is this and how do I respond if i should respond at all?)
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sexyfaceme

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You did lot of formal talk and suddenly drop the bomb. How do you expect her to feel. I guess you were expecting to get lucky. Didnt happen but no worries.

Also, If this is the exact message ("Maybe there is some secretarial work you can do for me.') you have sent her than we can fix this.
Tell her shes too naughty. You meant other secretarial work like "........." put some work you like checking papers or getting your papers from somewhere etc..(tell her in a way that you DO NOT GIVE A **** ABOUT HER).

HTH
 

Drdeee

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I faking hate SMS, in person or over phone she would not say all that. Plus you could use the other 80 percent of communication with her, like kino eye contact and emotions.
 

crazyboy

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anti slut defence. its amazing when ever **** happen somebody mom or dad is a cop.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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