"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hi there,
need help rgdng a guy am in love with and who certainly am not sure if he loves me. i love the guy so much but am married and he is un married. he says he does but am not sure becoz of: he never calls the way i do, if he calls he talks other stuff aprt from our relationship, wen we meet he only wants to be released from he being horny.... he has a relationship with another girl who he is planning to marry, he is so jealous of me tqalking to other men though we dont have any thing. can i plz know if he really loves me?????
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Triple trouble

Emmy

You are trouble, you are looking for trouble, you are getting trouble and you will get trouble. Do indulge yourself and live a troublesome life.
 
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WTF?

STOP CHEATING AND/OR MAKING OTHER CHEAT.

Find yourself a less complicated guy to get involved with.


Laterz...
 
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Originally posted by emmy
he has a relationship with another girl who he is planning to marry, he is so jealous of me tqalking to other men though we dont have any thing. can i plz know if he really loves me?????
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He is using you. Dump him!
 
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Yet love is blind and no matter how much truth we ram down her throat shes not gonna listen. Anyways whats with all the girls on this forum.

I've met girls who are natural DJs and it's a horrible thing. Firstly women are more desired than men. In a club that 1 hottie has got hundreds of guys with high intrest while she only gives high intrest to the odd person. When this girl learns the power of making the guy feel like shes not worth it, then says something which changes his mind over and iver and back and forth the love spell is created.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by emmy
hi there,
need help rgdng a guy am in love with and who certainly am not sure if he loves me. i love the guy so much but am married and he is un married. he says he does but am not sure becoz of: he never calls the way i do, if he calls he talks other stuff aprt from our relationship, wen we meet he only wants to be released from he being horny.... he has a relationship with another girl who he is planning to marry, he is so jealous of me tqalking to other men though we dont have any thing. can i plz know if he really loves me?????
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Perhaps if you devoted the energy you're wasting on someone else's man on YOUR HUSBAND (who probably DOES love you)...you might not be on here asking stupid questions.

If you can't be faithful to your husband you have no business being married. You have no business chasing after another woman's fiance.

Stop chasing after other men. If you don't love your husband then divorce him and set him free to go find someone who won't treat him as you are treating him.
 
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