Pls Help me contact a girl in this situation.

[luapmandragon]

There is this girl from I really like but before I could ask her out she didn't show up to work cause she called in sick. Now I guess she didn't call or show 2 days in a row and probably doesn't work there anymore. I found from somebody she has a myspace page so I looked her up and found it. How the hell do I contact her now without it being awkward? I'm 90%+ sure she would have gone out with me if I had asked just because we got along so well and all the buying signals she gave me.

 

[luapmandragon]

Any suggestions?

Obviously I'm going to have to use e-mail to contact her so if anyone could give me a little help on how to break the ice I should be ok with followups. I've even got a few ideas that I could use some opinions on.

Hey Krista,

Whats up I haven't seen you in work forever are you still alive? I hope you are doing alright cause nobody else at work can keep up with me and I hate having to dumb myself down so they can understand.

Hey Krista,

I heard from Twilla that you have a myspace page and since you haven't been to work in forever I thought I might check it out to see whats going on. Not a bad page but a little pink for my taste *wink* but I'll let it slide since you have a good sense of humor. I'm working on Halloween so you need to come by and checkout my sweet costume plus I'll pelt you with some candy.

Ya so I'm not really sure wtf to say but I was thinking it would probably be better to send something along the lines of the first one then followup with something like the second one. Lastly, if she keeps responding to me and being interested I'll probably do something like this.

Hey Krista,

This upcoming Monday afternoon I don't have anything going on would you like to hang out and grab some ice cream? I figure ice cream is easy and in public so if you turn out to be a psycho I can grab my Blizzard and say "daaaa I left my iron on which is on the stove which is also on and that just can't be good for my appliances so I gots to go."

Any help would be appreciated. Oh and a little bit about my relationship with her. We were always teasing and joking at work and she was an extremely good sport and would even counter attack at times. I found that I was slowly able to keep upping the level of intensity and would absolutely drop her mouth to the floor a few times then she'd give me her extremely cute what are you talking about I'm completely innocent smile.

 

[Desdinova]

There is this girl from I really like but before I could ask her out she didn't show up to work cause she called in sick. Now I guess she didn't call or show 2 days in a row and probably doesn't work there anymore.

Hesitation = Masturbation. You need to strike while the iron is hot.

Also, why the hell is this one girl so damn important? If you missed out, so what? There are lots of other women out there. Quit putting all your eggs in one basket, especially since you don't even have the basket!

I found from somebody she has a myspace page so I looked her up and found it. How the hell do I contact her now without it being awkward?

Easy. You quit putting so much importance on getting this one woman and move on with your life. You're not going to be forever lonely just because you didn't contact her. Your heart isn't going to stop pumping blood just because she has forever exited your life.

Life moves on. Move with it.

 

[edmond]

Stop thinking about her.

Forget about her and carry on with your life:woo: , she is not interested in you; if she was she would have made sure that you had her details before leaving the job.

 

[luapmandragon]

Forget about her and carry on with your life:woo: , she is not interested in you; if she was she would have made sure that you had her details before leaving the job.

Possibly. But it isn't like she left the job she was fired so can't you see how it may be a little strange to go up there within 5 days of being fired?

Oh and I'm not focusing on this one girl only she just seemed to be one of the better possibilities available to me. I just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 years so I'm pretty open.

Thanks for the replies and keep them coming.

 

[Desdinova]

Oh and I'm not focusing on this one girl only she just seemed to be one of the better possibilities available to me.

I smell something funky here. If you've got other prospects going on, losing one woman shouldn't be a big deal.

 

[realsmoothie]

Forget about her and carry on with your life:woo: , she is not interested in you; if she was she would have made sure that you had her details before leaving the job.

That's not necessarily true. He didn't say that they were frolicking in the janitor's room... he said that she would have gone out with him if he'd asked.

Anyhow... for the original poster... just write her, don't wait. The C&F one was pretty good, use that. What's the worst that could happen? You know she liked you, so it can't hurt.

 

[luapmandragon]

Thanks for the help bros.

I used the C&F one earlier today so its up to her now. I sure hope she doesn't **** this up =p.

Sidenote: I've been practicing some DJ skills at work since I work at a Walgreens and usually either cashier or work the floor I see people constantly and since it is a college town there are some fine women coming through every day. So I've been consciously slowing down my movements and speech while trying to give my voice a little work.

I've got to say if nothing else its keeping my wit razor sharp, my observations skills clear as crystal and gives me a decent confidence boost. My only gripe is that since it is my job I feel like I have to restrain myself a little bit on the C&F and definately not ask for numbers. However, there are a few girls that come in quite frequently that I'm sort of getting to know and was thinking that I should just put my balls out there and go for the digits. What do you think ya or no? BTW when I mean get the digits I mean in the most discreet way possible cause I likes my petty cash.

 

[luapmandragon]

Well guys she finally responded after a couple weeks. I guess she was having some problems thats why she stopped showing up at work and stuff. Anywho guess I just need to try and plan out a meeting if I can or preferably get her phone # so I can talk to with my voice instead of internet. Problem is she doesn't have a phone atm she has to use her roommates cell phone which would be a little strange. BTW I found out about the phone situation when she still worked with me so it wasn't like I said "hey whats your phone number pretty lady" and she said "uhhhh I don't have one I use my roommates." She was either telling her boss or her friend Twilla that works there or something and I overheard it.

Anyways, I'm going to give it a few days maybe a week and see if she wants to grab some ice cream or something on a weekday. Hopefully Monday or Wed since I don't work on those days but I'll just have to see. Any help on ideas on easy little things to do would help. The problem is we live in this small ass hick town that only exists because of the college and there really isn't **** to do so trying to think of anything let alone something unique is hard.

I've got several prospects in mind atm so I'm mainly trying to hone my skills on them so I won't be such a tight-ass square whiteboy when I'm with Krista.