"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Plowing a girl - great for hooking her

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Mantis Toboggan

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maverick72 said:
I do exactly the opposite of what most pick up artists do and it works for me.

It is called Plowing.

I get aggresive with my date from the start. If I am not feeling her vibe within the first ten minutes of the 1st date I get up and leave. I use heavy kino in the first 10 minutes and smother her with interest. I will take her hand and hold it, escort her to a movie or dinner or touch her. I will generally lead the date. Then if she is receptive I will take her back to my car afterwards to make out in the car for 15-20 minutes. After the date ends I will text her to see if she got home ok? If she texts me back game on!
I will then set up another date that night via text or call her to talk to her after date. I will sometimes call her the next day too -- hoping she wont pick up the phone---and I will leave a nice, sweet, romantic message telling her a wonderful time with the most gorgeous girl that I had the opportunity of meeting. Then i will text her few hours later and just maybe....send email chocolate or flowers with the email. Corny. But the point is that I am Plowing her. Im showing her heavy attention and being very aggressive in my interest. (most guys see it as needy) Wrong! I am not CARING ABOUT THE OUTCOME AND MY FEELINGS AREN'T INTO IT. Thats the catch. Keep your emotions out of it.
Be charming. Everything you do has to be positive with her. If she ignores you. Say to her....'awww you are so sweet, even if you dont want talk I am here candy girl" Say silly stuff to her. Make her laugh. You are immune to her negative attitude and sort of tease her. Then send her a note saying 'your special.' Then send more flowers. Maybe some poetry too.

You see I am breaking down her defenses. She will eventually meltdown and become putty in your hands.

Then after a few days of constant heavy attention........I stop. I compeletely stop everything I'm doing and disappear. Then a few days later they get anxious. They will wonder what happened to me? I ignore them. Then they text me. I ignore them again. Its funny to watch this unfold. I cut them off cold turkey. It is human nature to find out why the change of behavior.

Then I make myself like a drug to them. Irressitible. Im like a cat toying with a mouse before I devour it. They sometimes get frustrated because I tell them no I cant go out with you. They think to themselves....Does he have someone else? Did he meet another girl?
I get them in the palm of my hand. Then they break down, get anxious, and ask me out. I am in demand now. You control the game by giving up the power in the beginning and showering them with glitter and attention. Create a small party for her in the beginning and she is the woman of the hour. Show them you like them and then quit them cold turkey.
Then on the date, no holds bar. I will get very aggressive french kiss (with a i dont care attitude) them and grab their tits in my car playfully, or smack their ass as we are leaving a movie theatre or store. I will call them my little *****. *smiles*
They pick up on this playful, yet seductive vibe that "i dont care" and that comes off as confidence. Women cant figure me out and I become a mystery. They love a man with mystery. They want to understand my motives but cannot. They want to know why I like them one minute and then ignore them the next. Women are irrational, emotional creatures. Men are logical and reasonable. Logic and reason does not work with a woman. You have to play their game and turn the tables. Be irrational and a mystery. Lay the charm on thick and then split on her.

I have slept with man girls doing this game.

Its a game. All of it. You got to go to extremes with them. Come into their life like a powerful hurricane and leave them with the emotional wreckage...of why did he do this to me?
In other words, show tons of interest in the beginning then completely ignore them the next. Plowed them the first few days. Just dive into her like a needy, desperate, sweet guy, and whisper to her you are the most beautiful woman in the world" give her candy, BS her..... the stuff they secretly crave....then cut them off and disappear without a trace. Wait in the shadows and then after she machine gun texts you..send her a little text saying hello! ..then disappear for a few more days. CHICKS LOVE THIS SHYT. But you got to get them hooked by plowing them first.

But but but maverick....when I look at your previous threads, it says you believe that "Celibacy is the Path to True Happiness"

Also - watch out for those trannies.
 
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