I can honestly say that what happened last night have a major impact on my life.
Last night, I went clubbing with a group of friends. There were like 4 girls and 5or 6 guys. At first I was having fun, but then later I realized I really couldn't get any of them to dance with me(ex.grinding) so I began to get annoyed.
I noticed that of all the guys, I was the shortest and arguably the most unattractive one. This thought keep coming up in my head and I was sort of pissed. At that time, I thought I will never get any ass because of my physical stature and looks.
"This sucks. Confidence is over rated. Tomorrow I am gonna make a post and ***** about it on the forum" I kept repeating that to myself. Later I left and a Friend of mine decided to crash at my place.
We talked and about girls, and I was surprised of our conversation. He said confidence, you need confidence to get girls. Be a bad boy, have the don't give a fvk attitude. I was like wtf, I heard the same stuff before.
I told him I know this stuff, but is very hard for me to apply my knowledge. He agreed that before his "transition", he wasn't getting much either. He said knowing is not enough, you have to actually experience it to actually be good at it.
I was floored. Here I am, talking to a DJ and we just talked about things mentioned on this site. Of coz he doesn't know about this site, but the knowledge we share are the same.
Well guys I need your help. I don't know why but I give off the "geek" vibe. I don't know why, but people just assume that I am a nerd who studies all day and have no social life. I am always like wtf? when I hear stuff like that.
Just a couple days ago after I went clubbing with my friends, later we went to a place to get something to eat. I saw a girl there who's in my university and I went over to say hi. She asked what did I do and I told her I went clubbing. Shes like, is that your first time going?
So yeah guys, what can I do to stop giving off the geek vibe? I mean I play sports, have a social life but people that don't know me always I assume I am a geek.
Last night, I went clubbing with a group of friends. There were like 4 girls and 5or 6 guys. At first I was having fun, but then later I realized I really couldn't get any of them to dance with me(ex.grinding) so I began to get annoyed.
I noticed that of all the guys, I was the shortest and arguably the most unattractive one. This thought keep coming up in my head and I was sort of pissed. At that time, I thought I will never get any ass because of my physical stature and looks.
"This sucks. Confidence is over rated. Tomorrow I am gonna make a post and ***** about it on the forum" I kept repeating that to myself. Later I left and a Friend of mine decided to crash at my place.
We talked and about girls, and I was surprised of our conversation. He said confidence, you need confidence to get girls. Be a bad boy, have the don't give a fvk attitude. I was like wtf, I heard the same stuff before.
I told him I know this stuff, but is very hard for me to apply my knowledge. He agreed that before his "transition", he wasn't getting much either. He said knowing is not enough, you have to actually experience it to actually be good at it.
I was floored. Here I am, talking to a DJ and we just talked about things mentioned on this site. Of coz he doesn't know about this site, but the knowledge we share are the same.
Well guys I need your help. I don't know why but I give off the "geek" vibe. I don't know why, but people just assume that I am a nerd who studies all day and have no social life. I am always like wtf? when I hear stuff like that.
Just a couple days ago after I went clubbing with my friends, later we went to a place to get something to eat. I saw a girl there who's in my university and I went over to say hi. She asked what did I do and I told her I went clubbing. Shes like, is that your first time going?
So yeah guys, what can I do to stop giving off the geek vibe? I mean I play sports, have a social life but people that don't know me always I assume I am a geek.