"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Please quit lowering your standards

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I'm also calling out black men on this because I see a lot of them with fat old white women. I've met hideous ugly women that think they are future nfl wives because they are banging the nfl prospect sec athletes of the school. This fat girl gave me a list of what she wanted in a man and it pretty much summed up to a James Bond that stays commited. I told her that wasn't even reality for her and she just ignored it. I found out later that she has only had sex with college school athletes wtf. It's to the point where it is easier to talk to the pretty girl now.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Dude is 2014...its ok to like fatties....

The world is topsy turvy now. Look back at history....the hot ones were the chunky ones.

Just do you brah...

And p.s.

I love tht the pretty ones are more available
 

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_sideways_ said:
I love that the pretty ones are more available
I second that thought! I gamed a girl that was slightly above my standards in weight once. She was very interested and would do whatever I wanted. I thought "what the heck, let's give this a shot." It wasn't until I saw her naked that I realized I was NOT attracted to her at all. In fact, I never slept with her that and neither did I see her again.
 

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Mike32ct said:
Mike32ct's Rule #35744 - She's always bigger once the (tight) clothes come off.
Yup, I had to find out the hard way. I immediately lost all arousal when I saw her naked. She did give me nice oral, though :whistle:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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unfortunately the value of pvssy is overvalued in the market for her right now
just like all other market bubble it will bust
that bust usually happens when they hit 30 or 40
 

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One thing I can say is that some of these women who might look a little too curvy with clothes on can actually surprise you when the clothes come off. Some women can hold their weight better, have smooth skin all over (no cottoge cheese, which thinner women can have), and their bodies can be damn right sexy as all get out with no clothes on. But for some reason with clothes on they look just a tad on the heavier side, not fat mind you, just a lil heavier. But with clothes off, well, it is on my friend. But sometimes, even with women who's bodies are smoking hot, you take off that bra, and bam, pankake nipples the size of her breasts are staring back at you!! hahah..
 

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^ this...

Latinas especially look fat, but nAked they are firm.

Plus i can overlook a little bit of unattractiveness on any girl if shes tight and rides it like a mechanical bull.

But long term, she needs to be fitness conscious, as well as financially and emotionally...blah blah blah

Tight, sweet, pretty pvsssy....and im not complaining cuz i got some other girls im trying to take to town...
 

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Too many guys have no standard, which makes it harder for us guys who do have one..
 

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European-DJ said:
Too many guys have no standard, which makes it harder for us guys who do have one..
Yep. A lot of guys with a high lay count have it because they have sex with ugly women! And they think they are a DJ lol. If she's less than a 7 it doesn't count...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Plus average and ugly guys get left out completely because the ugly chicks know they can get a hotter guy*.

*It's probably just for a night, but the chick thinks a ONS means she can get a LTR with the same caliber guy.

But yes, I agree that men "dumpster diving" screws everything up.

I have no problem with cute thick women though. We're not talking about that. I think the OP means land whales and UGs.
 

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I gamed a girl that was slightly above my standards in weight once. She was very interested and would do whatever I wanted. I thought "what the heck, let's give this a shot." It wasn't until I saw her naked that I realized I was NOT attracted to her at all. In fact, I never slept with her that and neither did I see her again.



How to Make Your Ex Boyfriend Jealous
 

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latinnova said:
One thing I can say is that some of these women who might look a little too curvy with clothes on can actually surprise you when the clothes come off. Some women can hold their weight better, have smooth skin all over (no cottoge cheese, which thinner women can have), and their bodies can be damn right sexy as all get out with no clothes on. But for some reason with clothes on they look just a tad on the heavier side, not fat mind you, just a lil heavier. But with clothes off, well, it is on my friend. But sometimes, even with women who's bodies are smoking hot, you take off that bra, and bam, pankake nipples the size of her breasts are staring back at you!! hahah..
To each their own, but I cannot handle any part of a woman that is jiggly or saggy, especially breasts. She has to have perky breasts or be flat chested (you can now see that I'm a butt guy). Of course, their bodies are naturally about 25-30% fat, so their bottom cheeks and legs are going to have some--that's fine. I just like my women lean with proportionate fat in the right places.
 

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skinnyguy said:
Yep. A lot of guys with a high lay count have it because they have sex with ugly women! And they think they are a DJ lol. If she's less than a 7 it doesn't count...
Below a 7 doesnt count?
What #are u?
Girls prolly say that about guys too...so maybe thats why ur struggling with the 9s u lust after. Maybe they would give u chance cuz u seem great, but nah...it wouldnt count for them anyways cuz ur a 6.
 
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