"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Please Post Your Age To Use MM

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All,

Referencing this sticky here in the Mature Man Section http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=221385

Please make sure your age is posted to your profile before using the Mature Man section. I've seen quite a few posters in here that haven't done so yet.

Thank you much,

Lefty
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wish it was a requirement that all posters include their age in their profile. It's a lot different discussing day game with a 17yo than it is a 30yo. And the "what did this text mean" can change a lot too.
 

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^^ I second this, all posters on here should post their age.

I mean for example, my boy ZTIME had a thread a while ago about his issues and while it was in the Mature Man section, if he had posted it in the General Discussion section, this 40 year old successful businessman would have had 22 year olds trying to school this guy on "game". I have no idea what a 22 year old who still stays with their parents, with no established credit history, etc., can teach a 40 year old successful business man about life, women, game or anything.

That would be completely ridiculous but that is happening all the time on this Forum. I read certain threads and I'm like, dude, you are 22 and giving "advice" to a 45 year old guy with 7 times the net worth as you? Lol, you have got to be kidding me.
 

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I would go one step further and would like to see a 45+ subforum as us old guys have a whole different world to deal with out there....
 

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spook120 said:
I would go one step further and would like to see a 45+ subforum as us old guys have a whole different world to deal with out there....
I would agree, but maybe at a 40 cut off. I'd still like to see the 50-70 age group posts and interact. I believe that we all have a lot to learn from the older generation, and I don't want to wait another year to get there!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wtf does "net worth" have to do with anything? Or "established credit history?" Jesus, it's pvssy, not a mortgage loan.

If you need money to get women, then you are misunderstanding the concept of game. Even worse, you're probably the one being gamed.
 

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So how about it Mods....can we get a 40+ subform going in the future...?
 

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spook120 said:
So how about it Mods....can we get a 40+ subform going in the future...?
I would vote for that. You might consider making a public survey to check interest. Could have the choices be something like this:

- I am 40 or over and I would for sure support a 40+ subforum

- I am 40 or over and do not think we need a 40+ sub forum

- I am under 40, old people are lame!
 
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