"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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kegger

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First you must understand were I am coming from here.
I am still in college, and there is this girl in my
math class who I would consider out of my social
class. I recently found out that she is single, and I
have been using some of your tips. We have kinda been
joking and playing around in class but this is the
only time I get to see her. I thought about asking her
for her email or IM, even maybe who number. I figured
it would be best to do this by saying that I needed
help with math, and then getting onto other subjects.
I am really interested in this girl, she is just my
type. Short, perportional breasts, and the cuttest
smile, but that is a bit off subject. I am not the
most attractive guy and don't usually stick with the
whats hot trends. I don't want to make a wrong move
and trash my chances, but I don't want to wait to long
to find out that she is taken. What should I do, were
should I start, what moves should I use to make her
more attracted to me, and I will except anymore any
other tips you can give me. :confused:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Alphathree

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"I am not the
most attractive guy"

Stop saying that to yourself. Instead, say this:

"I love getting rejected because it means I went for it. It's thrilling."
 

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it sound like you need to get up your selfesteem. have you ever really talked to her or just stare at her from across the room? i dont know if you have read the tip section in this site, but if not you should do so. it will answer alot of questions you might have also click on this link and read up. its probley the best ive read so far.

http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/index.html
 

DjDreamer

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Originally posted by Alphathree
"I am not the
most attractive guy"

Stop saying that to yourself. Instead, say this:

"I love getting rejected because it means I went for it. It's thrilling."
Very interesting hypnotic suggestion... doesn't conflict with reality... doesn't seem absurd when somone states the opposite... it makes me feel like writing a poem on the esquisiteness of being rejected by a HB10... I just had a paradigm shift...
 

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Start off with checking through the bible...

But it comes down to pretty much one thing...getting her number then asking her out.

You could go with the indirect route with seeing if she wants to study together. Personally I'd go for it and see what happens. From what you've said it seems like the two of you have a good rapport. It's time to move it up to the next level.

Start with the first step: get her number
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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kegger

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OK, thnx a million, I will try some things today, pls keep giving tips.
 

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Remember the friend zone is your enemy (if you want date her). The longer you are there the harder it will be to move to the next level. And that's why I would simply talk and see if I can build any attraction/chemistery. If I would then I would ask number or whetever she likes to hang out in cafe or something similar. If she would qualify the cafe phase and still be fun to be around I would ask her number/to go out. (depending if u already got her number ;) )

On the site note, I dont think it's that smart to study together. She probably knows what's going on and maybe think that you are not man enough to ask her out straight. Then again she might give u chance anyhow but don't for second think she doesn't know what you are up to. :woo:
 

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I got a IM, but she hasnt been on yet. Now where should I go, should I try conversating, ask her out for a date, or WHAT!!!.
 

Alphathree

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Originally posted by DjDreamer
Very interesting hypnotic suggestion... doesn't conflict with reality... doesn't seem absurd when somone states the opposite... it makes me feel like writing a poem on the esquisiteness of being rejected by a HB10... I just had a paradigm shift...
I'm not sure if I should say thank you or f~ck you.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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