Please Help!!!

[kegger]

First you must understand were I am coming from here.
I am still in college, and there is this girl in my
math class who I would consider out of my social
class. I recently found out that she is single, and I
have been using some of your tips. We have kinda been
joking and playing around in class but this is the
only time I get to see her. I thought about asking her
for her email or IM, even maybe who number. I figured
it would be best to do this by saying that I needed
help with math, and then getting onto other subjects.
I am really interested in this girl, she is just my
type. Short, perportional breasts, and the cuttest
smile, but that is a bit off subject. I am not the
most attractive guy and don't usually stick with the
whats hot trends. I don't want to make a wrong move
and trash my chances, but I don't want to wait to long
to find out that she is taken. What should I do, were
should I start, what moves should I use to make her
more attracted to me, and I will except anymore any
other tips you can give me. Thank You, Needy from Indiana.

 

[LesaneCrooks]

DONT call urself needy. u dont NEED anything. DONT follow trends, SET them. NOONE is out of your social class.

 

[kegger]

makes sence, I like that idea. But I need to know how to start things off, I have read these articles and they just don't get to what I amm looking for.

 

[LesaneCrooks]

they never will, all the situational crap is pointless. the real value is in the root cause of ur situation, which is psychology. Find out the cause, fix it, no problems.

 

[kegger]

that still doesn't help, I have the courage, just don't know to go about it.

 

[Smooth Player 056]

You have a few options, at least you have enough confidence to talk to her....unlike others...so congrats to that.

What I would do is initiating kino, and look for signs of interest. An easy way out to get her number is to say: "Hey Jenny lemme get your number in case im absent one day".....then when she gives you the number you can neg her by saying..."wow....are you always this forward with guys?"

 

[[]D [] []V[] []D]

its called

C&F

1)****y and funny

use this attitude with some...

2) kino

and your one your way

 

[kegger]

Thnx, I will give it a shot today.

 

[kegger]

I got a IM, but she hasnt been on yet. Now where should I go, should I try conversating, ask her out for a date, or WHAT!!!.

 

[Docs]

you need help with math, yes, yes you do.

So you get over there, you put on the act of acting really retarded and not able to understand much. Once she blows up on you for being retarded, ask her if you can do a problem, pick the hardest one you can find...poke at a few, asking her if this one is good enough, etcetc. Then do it 10 seconds flat and watch her reaction as you pick her up happily saying 'Thanks for helping, you look so cute when you're mad'

...and after that, you WILL ask her out for the night, think of a date.

At least that'd be what I'd do

 

[kegger]

did similar today, and got close to her helping her, out teacher made us take a quiz, I was one of five who got 100%, those of us who did had to pick three people to get in a group and help. Quess who I asked first. It worked but I still arnt sure were to go from here.

 

[Docs]

guess what, tell her you need one-on-one help, she'll go

- 'You got 100%, you need help?!?'
- 'You can't get help w/o asking!!'
- 'What do you need help with?'
- some crap you know 100% that was previous to quiz, blame your fears on the upcoming exam.
- 'mmk...' (stuff starts setting up)

In case she's going 'err uh...i'm busy..', come back with something about how she's a mean person for not helping. Then ignore her for the rest of the day

No harm done, it's either going to go or not..and you lose nothing really.

 

[kegger]

might take aim at that, I have not yet had a high school GF, I am a sophmore, forget what I said in the original message. I have only had little kid relationships and looking for something more. you should of saw the girl I was after before this one came along. On a scale of 1 to 10, 10 being the best, the last one would of been a 5 and this one a 9.5. Get were I am coming from.

 

[Docs]

well aware.

Be creative..that's all.

I still like my line 'You look so cute when you're mad' ^^,

 

[kegger]

I would either please her or make her look cuter, get were I am going with that.

 

[kegger]

New things here, I have been reading quick tips and just can't figure this out for my situation of being a sophmore in HS. I live in a small town and not much for teens to do around here. I need to know if it is just better to ask her to go out with you and go from there, or to ask her out somewere first. Thnx.

 

[Docs]

If you are keen on asking her, I'd flip a coin. I don't know much about smaller towns...but I'm sure you can find something interesting no matter what way the coin says...

I would either please her or make her look cuter, get were I am going with that.

This made no sense -_-

 

[kegger]

U said that she looked cute when she was mad, then u would make her cuter, AKA madder. Just a friendly pun.

 

[Docs]

ahah, good call.

 

[Noctlos]

i say to try to do something active with her, whatever is prevelant in your town.... like maybe take her longboarding or something. The point to this is, you seem like you just want to hang out right now, and this gives you a chance to develop a foundation to build long-term rapport. If maybe not longboarding, maybe cow tipping, or just cruising. Either way, do something that you would deem as a hang-out active "date"(i wouldn't tell her it's a date this first time, but let her either assume so or at the end say something along the lines of, but more creative than "what a great date")