Please Help

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

I am a skinny weak person. There this guy who kept teasing me and making fun of me at the place where I work. Worse of all, I got a good feeling I'm going to get my ass kick soon from him. I don't wanna tell the manager because it's really embarrassing. Besides, I'm 19 and this is something I have to overcome. This guy is a big guy. Is there any good self-defense tape I could download for free. I heard "street self-defense 101" is easy and effective. But I couldn't download any of the tapes is limewire, it doesnt work. E-donkey got to pay.

I'm really uncomfortable and afraid right now. I don't want my ass kick and there are so many people with my age works there and it'll be really embarassing. And he tease me like making kind of quick fake moves to make me stutter, which I kept trying not to.

Please help.

 

[TheRelic]

Even martial arts take years and years to master - as only that length of repetition can teach you what the art itself can't - how to be calm in a fight.

Your best bet is to stick to dirty fighting... im sure you'll be able to find sources of info.

 

[TheRelic]

Ok, my post above was if you intend on fighting.

Otherwise, I would hit the gym, and eat like a mother for starters...

Don't give him the time of day, call him on his crap. If you can gather the guts, ask him who the f*ck he thinks he's trying to impress...

 

[onelife]

dont try and fight this guy.
he will likely kick your ass.

in the short term, like The relic said, call him on his **** and stand up for yourself in a non confrontational manner. Your at work, not school. Tell your manager about the problem and mention it is interupting with your work. Be a man.

in the long term, work on your self confidence so this doesnt happen again. Bullies will always go for the weak.
go to the gym, play some sport or do martial art's.

don't be scared of this ****head, more than likely he is just covering his insecurities by picking on you and has no intention of causing you pysical harm.. and hell, if he does hit you call the cops and get him arrested for assult.

 

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

but what can the police do? I mean, they just probably make that guy sit at a police station for a while and release him, like most the the movies. I don't know how does the police work and what they do to criminals, but I'm thinking that he might call his friends to gang-up on me right?

 

[TheRelic]

Yeah, he most likely will call his friends.

Generally, police are utterly useless.

You won't get help from them unless he actually lays a hand on you, and you have credible witnesses.

Onelife gave the best rundown of the situation... he is a *****... I don't know your status in the workplace, but i'm sure that if you get your confidence up, hit the gym, and show a care factor of zero, you'll get others to side with you.

A bullies worst nightmare is loosing the intangible stranglehold they think they have in a work/school social situation.

 

[ROOKIE OF THE YEAR]

darn, i was afraid it have to come down like this. For a minute, I felt kind of glad if police aren't that useless.

 

[TheRelic]

Well not police as such... but the laws... they pretty much have their hands tied until something obviously drastic occurs.