"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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hi guys, i am new to this site and forum, so i dont no if these questions have been asked b4.................... infact, they probably have. anyway, there is this girl at my school who i have really liked 4 ages, and wen i say ages, i mean like 8 months :( , all i do is think about her all day and all nite. i have 2 lessons with her a week, so thats 2 out of......... 35. everytime i see her i jus wanna go over and talk 2 her. but she is always with her friends and i fell that if i go over and say something 2 her, they will all laugh at me. basically i have no confidence and i have no time, i feel like i have wasted half my life doin nothin about it. can any1 give me any tips or anythin 2 help. this isnt just a question, this is a plea!
please help me if u can?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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read the bible. Stick to it and you'll do fine. You sound like you're a little too infatuated with this girl. Everyone is at least once or twice in their life. The only way to accomplish something is to talk. You know that and I know that
 
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Okay, this will cover your question.

See The Top Right Hand Corner of your screen. It says : New here? We suggest checking THE DJ BIBLE before posting. Click the link. Read.
 
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ok, thanks guys. BTW this bible is f*ckin ace! it took a long time 2 read, but it was worth it!
many thanks again
 
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It is a commonly known fact that women are evil. Shakespeare warned us with "frailty thy name is woman." A woman caused all misery by telling Adam to eat the fruit. It is important for a DJ to not become infatuated with one girl. When you have several to work with it will make you look more attractive and not worry too much. I have this probelm its hard to shake though.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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