"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Please help with a potentially ugly situation...

Touchout

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I was going to type up a long summary of what happened, but screw it, a girl sent me a message like

"(Friend) told me were in a fight. why?"

Well long story short I thought we were in a fight, but now that I see we aren't, what's a good thing to message back to her?


P.S. I don't usually ask specific questions but I'm stumped.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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sav

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just tell her if she knows the "broken telephone game" and that this person misunderstood you...

go from there and hope it helps ;)

i learned a little while ago not to talk about my relationship issues with anybody that im not fully confident will keep what i say private... hence i only talk about them here where 1) im anonymous and 2) with only one close friend ...

good luck!
 
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