Hi im going through a break with my girlfriend it started 14/4/09! And i > need to know what to do?>
What you need to know,>
#Im her first.>
#Im the only serious realationship shes had.>
#Been together since march 2008.>
#She's 19>
#She said in a fight we had previous to this that she was waiting for me > to **** big time so she can walk away with no emotions attched and that > it would be less painful, but nothing tidious like this now.>
Heres the situation,> >
> I use to work with her. When i use to work with her i told some people > things like it's "temping to cheat but i wouldn't do it", also that "i > had my i eye on 4 other girls" when i was with her, the thing is i didnt > cheat with any of those girls on her, > I was true, it was guy talk. I don't work with her anymore since the end > of january i told her that "i was going to change for the better" and > started to do so. And stop talking rubbish and all. My dehlima is that > she found out what i had said previously before my vowe to change and i > apolgise for my actions in the past and if i could turn back time i > would of never of said it, and im trying to convince her now that, the > past was the past and I'm a shamed of what i did and that i dont want to > be like that, also said that "one of the reasons for leaving was so i > can get a way from all the **** i spoke their". I told her that she ment > the world to me, and did everything i could to let her know that im > growing and that im turnnig into a better person because of her.> >
The Ultimadum.> Everthings calmed down now but shes still cut up by it.> She said "she wants some time to think things through" she wanted two > weeks her main time frame was one month but cut it down to two weeks > don't know why, i got cut because she wouldn't just tell me there and > then whether were TOGETHER or NOT and would let me know in two weeks, > she said that "i mentioned forever so two weeks is nothing compared to > forever", was her rebutile for me not getting an answer then and their. > She said "you want me to say NO now or do you want a 50/50 chance in two > weeks". So i stop thinking about my self for a second and told her "you > said one month so take one month", she was suprised to hear what i said > and ask me "why did you say that", i told her "she was worth waiting for > and that to show her change i had to let her hear it in me".> > The Rules> #I can't see her in the two weeks and would let know after the two weeks > wether i can see her yet or not. (but she taking a month)> #I can call her on the phone but i said "but are you going to pick up > the phone" she "said if im not busy".> #I can message her on her phone.> > What do i do???????
What you need to know,>
#Im her first.>
#Im the only serious realationship shes had.>
#Been together since march 2008.>
#She's 19>
#She said in a fight we had previous to this that she was waiting for me > to **** big time so she can walk away with no emotions attched and that > it would be less painful, but nothing tidious like this now.>
Heres the situation,> >
> I use to work with her. When i use to work with her i told some people > things like it's "temping to cheat but i wouldn't do it", also that "i > had my i eye on 4 other girls" when i was with her, the thing is i didnt > cheat with any of those girls on her, > I was true, it was guy talk. I don't work with her anymore since the end > of january i told her that "i was going to change for the better" and > started to do so. And stop talking rubbish and all. My dehlima is that > she found out what i had said previously before my vowe to change and i > apolgise for my actions in the past and if i could turn back time i > would of never of said it, and im trying to convince her now that, the > past was the past and I'm a shamed of what i did and that i dont want to > be like that, also said that "one of the reasons for leaving was so i > can get a way from all the **** i spoke their". I told her that she ment > the world to me, and did everything i could to let her know that im > growing and that im turnnig into a better person because of her.> >
The Ultimadum.> Everthings calmed down now but shes still cut up by it.> She said "she wants some time to think things through" she wanted two > weeks her main time frame was one month but cut it down to two weeks > don't know why, i got cut because she wouldn't just tell me there and > then whether were TOGETHER or NOT and would let me know in two weeks, > she said that "i mentioned forever so two weeks is nothing compared to > forever", was her rebutile for me not getting an answer then and their. > She said "you want me to say NO now or do you want a 50/50 chance in two > weeks". So i stop thinking about my self for a second and told her "you > said one month so take one month", she was suprised to hear what i said > and ask me "why did you say that", i told her "she was worth waiting for > and that to show her change i had to let her hear it in me".> > The Rules> #I can't see her in the two weeks and would let know after the two weeks > wether i can see her yet or not. (but she taking a month)> #I can call her on the phone but i said "but are you going to pick up > the phone" she "said if im not busy".> #I can message her on her phone.> > What do i do???????