"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I feel so AFCish by allowing myself to be played by some stupid broad (HB 7. Awesome body but a so so face). Man I wanted to hit that so bad. I guess I broke one of the DJ rules and let the desperation come out of me. She "nicely" told me off by giving me the following line

I just want to concentrate on studies and I don't have time for a boyfriend.

Considering that women CANNOT be single for too long I knew right there that those words coming out of her mouth were just lies. I figure thats her way of saying that there is someone (or several other people) that she's either fvcking or willing to fvck and has absolutely no attraction in me. Did I mistranslate? I want to hear what you guys have to say.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by Adrian
I feel so AFCish by allowing myself to be played by some stupid broad (HB 7. Awesome body but a so so face). Man I wanted to hit that so bad. I guess I broke one of the DJ rules and let the desperation come out of me. She "nicely" told me off by giving me the following line

I just want to concentrate on studies and I don't have time for a boyfriend.

Considering that women CANNOT be single for too long I knew right there that those words coming out of her mouth were just lies. I figure thats her way of saying that there is someone (or several other people) that she's either fvcking or willing to fvck and has absolutely no attraction in me. Did I mistranslate? I want to hear what you guys have to say.
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I know you're pain trust me-I've actually posted something about this today,but anyway---THE TRANSLATION:I dont want to be committed to anyone,BUT, I dont mind fuc*ing random guys who I meet thats what she means..She doesn't want a guy whose there for her but rather a "GUY FRIEND" who will satisfy her sexual needs when she feels the urge....Don't sweat it man-it goes back to what I said in my post in relation to a situation such as yours...RELAX on her--I know in this day and age its hard to trust females,hell anybody for that matter...but if you dig this chick to the point of making her GF material then you have to learn to trust her-I think the reason you feel that she's lying to you is because of your way of thinking concerning women...Dont think that they think the same way as us-chicks are tottally retarded..they cant decide what they want...they say one thing and do another---youre young you shoudn't want a GF right now anyway-HAVE FUN!
 
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I have to concentrate on my studies and I don't have time for a girlfriend at the moment.

haha, that´s what I usually say, when they ask. ;)


Anyway, don´t care that much what she might think. If you want her, do what has to be done. Do the moves! Then you will see where you will get with her. ;)
 
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Dude I've gotten that slutty vibe from her ever since I've met her about nine months ago. I was very well on my way to hitting that up until I turned all AFC. And no..... I am not hurt and She definitely isn't girlfriend material. She's a fvcking hor. Nothing more, nothing less. I had my hopes up and I really wanted to bang the sh!t out of her..... really bad. I'm going to persue other girls to fvck for the time being and let her do her thing. If she wants to reconsider in the future and allow me to fvck her brains out then it's fine. If she doesn't thats still fine. I might not even want anything dealing with that filth. Thanks for the post guys.
 
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Originally posted by Adrian
If she wants to reconsider in the future and allow me to fvck her brains out then it's fine. If she doesn't thats still fine.
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I agree. ;)

As a side note: I am not talking about rape here. But you could try to really persist with this girl and make her undouptable clear that you want to **** her. You could meet with her in a private place and go "either we will **** now together or I´ll leave your life forever". No problem to appear really horny here.

Try something with the effect to "wow your ass is looking unbelievable stunning in your clothes and if you don´t want me to do what I will do now then tell me to go out of your life now".
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by Adrian


I just want to concentrate on studies and I don't have time for a boyfriend.
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Translation: Studying is more exciting than going out with you.
 
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Look a chick told me the same thing: I met her like a month ago and we talked a bit on messenger-all seemed fine-then came the bull-"She doesnt want a BF"-for various reasons...we loosely keep in touch and rarely see each other and yet when I suggest to come over my house and "watch a movie" she's down-like I said before-jus because she isnt inetrested in u as a BF doesnt mean she isnt interested in screwing you.
 
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