"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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please help, really important! Clarkfoam closing

wavejams007

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For those of you surfers and surfboard makers out there, a question for you. Clarkfoam, a company that creates the foam used for surfboards, has just closed down, leaving thousands without a job overnight. I have some close friends who depnd on their father's boardshop, and he has been directly hit. Does anyone know of some alternative foam producers or any ideas for alternatives to be used for creating surfboards. This is really important for them and for me, so any help would be appreciated. Thanx.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Unless someone takes over the industry this could be the end of fiberglass surfboards. I hate the plastics but theres no way im spending 1,000 bucks on a fiberglass shortboard.
 

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It's going to be hard looking for a replacement for Clark's, but I'd say Google up something like Surfboard blanks and see if you get any good vendors.

-Damian
 

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You could also do some research on the business.

Find out why they are closing... usually it is bankruptcy due to competitors selling quality products at discount prices, or top-notch at high prices, with boards I doubt the latter(considering there are new boarders born everyday), so assume the former.

Clarkfoam may be selling out their inventory, so get your dad to find some hook-ups who will buy it in bulk and give your dad Factory prices for the final product line.

You can also determine who else is on the market, and get some quotes from multile vendors.
 

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PS I'm a fan of the old woodshaven boards :p

I'm not into the patch work of the new boards, plastics and inert foamies aren't my style...

PPS I've never boarded on water, only planche de voile
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Thanxs for the responses! will do. :)

If anyone else has suggestions, please write them!
 

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They will be making them out of EPS and Epoxy rather than Clark and Polyester resin.

Don't worry, this will fix itself.
 
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