Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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dAi

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Hi,

I'm 18yrs old and there this girl who i truly got my eyes on and she's 17 and she's very pretty but the reason im already into her is because of her personality and something about her calls me. I finally got her Number on tuesday at school and i called her on thursday and told her "Lets Get together this Saturday" and she was like "okay fine" (and let me remind you that i'ma big fan of david D's dyd book and i know about the ****y + funny mode) so then today Friday at school i told her so wussup we still gonna chill on saturday and she was like "I dunno, Well see.." and im like "well see" and she goes "something up came up my friend having her 15s and i can't miss it, look just call me on saturday afternoon and we'll see and if anything call me on sunday" when she said these words I felt super down man really down all i wanted was to DATE her one night with her so i can use all my ****y/funny and all this moves and show her the other side of me which is fun because i really want to get with her i really see her as a longterm, I didn't knew what to say and i'm like "You know wha, maybe we should leave this some other day then" and she goes "yeah how about next weekend" and I myself showed her one of David D's moves which are not make her set up dates *I* set them up so i go "No, i dont know" and she goes "then the next weekend after" Wow.

That hurts, man.

I really really want to get with her I hate myself for liking her so much and im trying myself not to go back to wussy mode but im THIS close to go back to wussy mode (usually i go to wussy mode when i really like that person when that special someone) im usually ****y+funny acting like i dont give a ****... my c/f's are no match she always laugh and calls me cornball and she goes 'you so corny'.... :( my weak cf lines are no use

i barely call her i try not to be with her that much on school

but i think i have a super case here and i want you guys to please help me..

what should i do? Let her go?..i really dont wanna let her grow my feelings for her has grown each day..i can't stop thinking about her all this stufff r going to my head i haven't compliment on her i really trying to keep my shields on and be more of a Challenge but i just wanna deep down inside of me drop down on her and tell how much i like her and how much i wish to be with her 24.7 and to please give me a chance but then agains that's wussy mode even tho i know all this but somehow my body will react like that...

Help me guys...:(
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Matt Man

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hey i know im a noob, but give her a call, and set up one last date, if she rejects you then, well **** her!!!!


you can do better. If she plays tough and ****, just play along, and say you are corny and stuff, like i said im a noob, so you might not want to go do this.
 

LikRetsam

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Try one last time but for future reference don't keep ****y + funny to yourself. Let it rip. All the time.
 

Porky

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Make other plans for this weekend, she's jerking you around (for now anyway).
 

DJ Alejandro

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from what im reading and you saying that your C&F lines are 'weak' then i guess it's safe to say that she's not THAT much interested with you yet. but since she suggests making up for it, then maybe she is.

women are crazy.

well, whatever 15s meant, you have to understand that no matter how great a DJ is, sometimes, especially in the earlier phases of the relationship/contact, her friends still are more important to her.

next time, say, 'okay, ill just call you when im free. ' works for me.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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