"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Please help me understand how the hamster thinks

Zarky

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OP, you're caring too much about this chick's words. You should be caring about her actions. Her action here, specifically, is that she was telling you about some other guy she used to f*ck or is still f*cking. That action alone is enough to let you know that she has little to no respect for, or interest in, you. It doesn't matter what she said.

Time to forget this chick and find others that don't share that sh*t with you because they respect you as a man, not as an emotional tampon as you rightly suggested.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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RangerMIke

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Women always lie about their interest in a man when she thinks she is not in control. As stated it protects her ego.

If a woman is talking to you about having s3x with other dudes currently... then you will not get anywhere with her. If she was hooking up with other dudes and she was interested in you she would not talk about him. Much less discuss she was treated like a *****. Betas will think this is an invitation to been an even bigger weak pleasing nice guy. Could be a test to check your manhood.

If it comes up again say "I would only fvck you sober" She what she says... you have nothing to lose since nothing is going to happen anyway.
 
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