"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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timmylivingalie

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Been talking to this attractive hb8 for a couple months now she works a service job dealing with customers probaly getting hit on hundreds of times a day. Been using ****y comedy on her and getting a lot of ioi's. The other day she repeatly asked me if I needed anything else after she got my cigarettes from behind the counter and I responded yea write your phone on the reciept and she said next time and smiled. So the next purchase I made several days later I told her didnt you forget to write something on that reciept? She gave the next time answer again. Is this chick just blowing off or playing hard to get. She has gave a lot of ioi's and flirting with me, Please give me some tips on taking this too the next level.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sexysuave

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You asked for for her number twice... I'd say that's enough.... move on bro... she's blowing smoke
 

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If a girl likes you she would give the number the first time. I dont see how people claim theyve talked to a girl for a certain amount of time and not even have their number. My definition of talking must be different from yalls.
 

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I am thinking the same thing but been gaming some of her coworkers too in front of her seems to make her a little jealous. I dont want to get hung up on the same girl but where I live theres just not many women to choose from. Any tips too take it too the next level I have good reason to believe shes interested she even rubbed her p**** while I was talking too her so I dont want too give up too soon.
 

timmylivingalie

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PrettyBoyAJ said:
If a girl likes you she would give the number the first time. I dont see how people claim theyve talked to a girl for a certain amount of time and not even have their number. My definition of talking must be different from yalls.
Been Talking to her a lot in person and getting some good responses till I asked for the number.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Iceberg

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timmylivingalie said:
I am thinking the same thing but been gaming some of her coworkers too in front of her seems to make her a little jealous. I dont want to get hung up on the same girl but where I live theres just not many women to choose from. Any tips too take it too the next level I have good reason to believe shes interested she even rubbed her p**** while I was talking too her so I dont want too give up too soon.
Blah.

You're asking for a phone number, and she won't give it to you. And as many of us will tell you, getting a girl's number doesn't even mean anything. A girl will give you her number and never respond when you text/call.

My point is, a phone number is the lowest level of female interest....and she won't even give you that.

So all your talk about iois and p***y rubbing....sorry man, if she wanted you, she'd at least give you her number. Think about it....you're not asking to f**k her. You're not even asking her for a date. You're asking for a NUMBER.

Summary: stop reading imaginary signs (she rubbed her vag, iois, she gets jealous) and start reading reality (she denied you her number TWICE).
 

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Well show her that other girls are willing to give you their number show her that you have other option within her co workers how can you do that rly easy flirt with each one of them get the numbers and so on and leave her she did not give you the number 2 times omg leave her!1
 

timmylivingalie

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Iceberg said:
Blah.

You're asking for a phone number, and she won't give it to you. And as many of us will tell you, getting a girl's number doesn't even mean anything. A girl will give you her number and never respond when you text/call.

My point is, a phone number is the lowest level of female interest....and she won't even give you that.

So all your talk about iois and p***y rubbing....sorry man, if she wanted you, she'd at least give you her number. Think about it....you're not asking to f**k her. You're not even asking her for a date. You're asking for a NUMBER.

Summary: stop reading imaginary signs (she rubbed her vag, iois, she gets jealous) and start reading reality (she denied you her number TWICE).
You are right, I am just attempting to find a way to get her more interested there is a shortage of quality chicks where I am at.
 
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