Okay so here's my deal I've been in the same class with this chick(Lets call her Nikki) for the last 2 years for about the first 1 and a half i didn't feel any attraction to her, of course this is partly due to the fact that I had thought she was out of my league and what not but as most of us DJs know there's no such thing as outa of your league.So over that past few months I've allowed this attration to grow and now it's sort of outa my control. She's very loving and affectionate to me and calls me just about every night of the week. I don't call her back very often because there's simply no reason. I have another girl but her only purpose is to keep my mind off of Nikki.So last weekend I was hanging out with Nikki and she decides to tell me who sje's been hooking up with, her situation is a bit complicated ask me for details and I'll tell you all of it but for now lets just say it's REALLY complicated I've decided that I can't keep putting this off and I'm not going to allow myself to be taking these baby step, however I am a bit lost as to how I should approach this, and moving on is not something I want to be seriously considering. Here's been my basic strategy I've never paid her too much attention my compliments have been rare but unique and have definatly impacted her day she seems to think I'm much smarter than her, which is true depending on how you look at it and she's always running her hands thrrough my hair but the problem is tha I want her but am afraid to risk failing because well frankly i don't know why but I really want to succeed and this b***h is the only one that makes me feel this way and I'm begining to hate her guts for it.SHE GOT INSIDE MY HEAD!!!...so please guys help me get this chick, what I need to do is to make her feel an attration bet since I just made this account 5 minute prior to typing this I don't know what others have suggested....HELP ME!!!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Please Help Me I'm Out Of Ideas
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