She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
If you open them you open themif you don't you don't. Who cares.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Hate to say it, but if your not texting and she is not either, she is likely not interested...
thanks! That's kind of what i was thinking
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
^^^^This. You talked to much shît you're not supposed to, man. You don't tell them you got a crush on them, it makes you look desperate. Secondly, you got trashed in front of her, showing you have lack of control. That's unattractive. You most likely fücked this one up, but now you know.
Time to go and meet new women. Plural. Women.
Telling a chick you like her is not making a move. It is ****ing yourself over. You haven't made a move yet.