Please help guys

[AMF]

Ok folks,

Gonna get this out quick, bear with it, i really appreciate your advice, however long or short... cheers guys...

met this chick from my course at university, said she has always like me for ages, told me she had always liked me, knew loads about me, always thought i was really really hot. always came up to me in clubs, i had to make no effort, one night got her number. So I started textin her but she would reply much later, or not at all. So i dismissed her as ****k tease.

then she texts me outta the blue sayin "are we goin for that drink or what?" I also find out that she has told some guys that we both know, that she seriously likes me. Went for a drink had a really good night, always really attentive, big pupils, telling me she really likes me, gets a bit drunk in a club and gets REALLY hot and is ALL over me, invites herself back to mine, we have the most amazing making out EVER... asks if she can stay, i say no coz i dont want to be desperate.

Now, this chick is so incredibly hot and eccentric, a little mad and really kinky, I say i dont beleive she really likes me coz shes drunk, and she needs to prove it by textin me the next day. Which she does. i reply all cool and "see you around sometime." She texts me later to see if im free for doin somethin sunday night, but i just feel she's playin'...

Should i forget her?

Cheers guys

 

[mongoose]

yeah go out with her somewhere. forget that club sh!t though. take her somewhere cheap and where you can get in her head.

 

[xblitz44x]

You're an ass. Period. I just want to make sure I have this straight.

Girl says she likes you. Tells you are very hot. Got her number. She doesn't return texts immediately. Asks YOU out. Gives you all the IOIs in PERSON. Asks you if SHE can come back to your place. Makes out with you. Asks you if she can STAY over. Texts you the next day. Then asks you out AGAIN. Now you want to next her.

Yep, you are an ass. I don't know what else you are looking for. Give yourself more credit than that. You're also an ass for turning her down when she asked to sleep over. Stupid. Stop the games, this was a freebie and you blew it.

-Blitz

 

[drZaius09]

I can't figure out what's worse: the guy who constantly whines about getting used and abused by attention wh0res but yet keeps coming back for more even though they have no chance in hell of scoring; or a guy like you, who has an easy piece of ass thrown right into his lap yet chooses to second-guess himself and waste a perfect oppurtunity. This girl has done everything but spread-eagle naked on your friggin mattress and you're asking us what you should do next?!? "Should I forget her?" Are you #@$%! serious? I'll admit, you played it cool so far, but you took it a little too far. The next time a girl wants to go back to your place, TAKE HER THERE. Forget about "looking desperate," JUST BANG HER. Now instead of looking desperate you look like an asexual fairy-boy.

Be a man. Tie her ankles to your headboard and go to town. Enough of this sh1t.

 

[AMF]

It's done. thanks.

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Dood he's NOT an ASS for turning her down that night!! However you should never tell a girl you "don't want to look desperate."


Definitely keep in contact with this girl, work your game and make her chase you. Because right now it seems like everything is on her time and availability, NOT GOOD!! Be busy next time she wants to go out, especially if its on a weekend. You want to make her wonder about what your doing and who your with!! I think this girl is a little bit of a tease, but she's definitely interested in you. So play your cards right and go bang this broad.



PIMP

 

[AMF]

pimpsicle,

didnt actually tell this chick i "didnt want to look desperate" man, that was just the reason! but i totally like what your sayin here.
I know she likes me, and i like her. But shes real HOT. Other guys like her, and im pretty sure she must like other people too.

i need to set myself apart, make myself more desirable... ive said im free to do somethin wiv her sunday night (HER idea, tho dude) and its a real big step to message her sayin im bailing.

i need to play this right man, whats you advice, what can i say to bail but let her know im still interested. cheers dude